BGR is really real scary, from what I've read here

last SG · 2004-10-19T09:39:43+00:00

I'm not taking the risk, it's pointless anyway even if you succeed.

Suicine SG

but before that I will have to cultivate my mind first, so that I don't panic or have attachments when I die.

littlebeaker SG

That is why it is wise to wait till you know yourself well enough before starting a relationship. When you’re a boy or girl, it’s a time to explore who you are and also to explore friends around you.

Quinsy SG

I’m opening a nunnery when i grow up cuz guys are scary monsters who pretend to be pathetic and trick gas into sympathising them.

GrimR SG

u don't have to wait until grow up then be monk. Now oso can. Some monks v young oni not even 10 yrs old. Mr. Green

gerrykoh SG

I personally know of a lot of happy married couples Very Happy
Don't be discouraged by the unhappy stories here.
BGR & crushes - are part of growing up.
Just don't jump into any relationship within a short period of courtship.
It takes u years to know a person before u marry, so u won't make a mistake.
Don't give up even if u experience a heartbreak cos there will be someone out there. Very Happy

Devil1976 SG

So...? You're still gonna die in the end nonetheless yeah...?

What's the point of understanding it without experiencing it for yourself...?

Might as well all of us just sit in front of a TV and watch the explanation on life... That's it... Why bother to even go through it in the 1st place...? Rolling Eyes

devoid05 SG

BGR is a good thing if handled properly... it positively contributes to your personal growth Wink the negative connotation comes in only when the parties involve lack the wisdom and rationality to deal with the problems that inevitably arise along the way, as seen in the case of many pple in the forum. don't allow all these negative comments to colour your perceptions of BGR ks. Cheers!

monkeybusiness SG

i tin it all depends on individuals. for me personally, i dun find the need to get into a BGR right now. currently happy with my life, dunnit someone else to interfere

the.raven SG

go to shaolin, can learn kung fu Very Happy

blowfish SG

ever wander why the monk head had those round marking?

PrettyDajie SG

Having breakups with your gf/bf

hmm.... Actually.... Its a growing up stage... experiencing heartbroken failed relationships. You have sweet memories, special moments and happy times... No doubt there are sadness involved... bad quarrels... and hurting disagreements. Hmm... I am sure you learnt something from it.

You had a unique, special and close time with someone you love...... I think, its nice and good.. Even though, the loves ended... due to some reasons.. but you think back... You gotta thank the person for giving such nice memories... It hurts... at first, give yourself some time to heal.

Look at my slogan..... be a slow walker but don walk backwards.... Just be positive.. and enjoy your life. I believe you are still young... You wanna make use of your youth to do something, feel something.... and make something out!! Live your life.. with courage....

Don put all your energy on your negativity, and your hatred.... put your energy onto someone that loves you.... dearly... someone that needs you!! SAVE all that energy.. and do something good to pple around you!

All the best! Wink

Bontakun SG

I applaud yoo if yoo r on da road to enlightenment, but yoo can tink it dis wae:

Yoo dun really have to take da tonsure to help yoo on da road to nirvana. Sometimes events in da material world can help yoo realise da truth in yr path.

Try things out b4 yoo REALLY take da tonsure. Its never too late to try?

aH_v SG

Hmm.. I think so too.

Otherwise, I won't exist.

SGpork SG

u sure?

icyprincess SG

it will be scary when you are with someone who dun care the shit about you.

in fact it has been so scary for me dat i dun tink i will go into it in the near future.

i.c.y

poon cho tang SG

happy ppl won't be here Rolling Eyes

Parka SG

When it comes, it comes.

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