Group Dynamics

shaunlaw SG · 2004-10-28T17:26:20+00:00

I noe the society. It will be more worse and far than wat i can expect. All those back stabbing, betraying, and everything u can imagine can happen in the re...

Lingos SG

Question.. Why is this happening at a tertiary level? I thought everyone should be chillin' and getting to know more people.

Anyway i know dynamics of a group can change a lot. LIke allegiances form and get disbanded with a new person.
Why don't you just say stuff it and continue with this new group of friends if you are 'enjoyin' yourself and nobody has told you to eff off basically.
I think it's rather rude someone has told you rumours. They might be jealous of intimidated by you.. That's what i think anyway.

shaunlaw SG

Good question to why is it happening in tertiary level. I have absolutely no idea either. And whats more its happening due to 2 adults thinking! I reapeat adults (21yrs old in the eyes of the law.)! Mad

The 2 "adults" who feel uncomfortable at my presence actually told my god sis to ask me not to join them! So isnt this the same as telling me to eff off? Its not a rumour, its true! Dun ask me for why they feel like this cos only the 2 of them noe! Confused

Devil1976 SG

Man... Talk about adults....? Rolling Eyes

Please go find other kids to play with... If they don't welcome you, just forget it yeah...?

Why have to push until like that...?

shaunlaw SG

They are my frens and not some kids. Even though their halding of this matter is not adult style, pls dun go criticise them as kids.

Lingos SG

Hmm...Well.. they didn't tell it to you in your face.
So why don't you be adult and approach them. Ask them what is going on..why can't you hang out with them. Obviously some insecurities there.. maybe all the girls in the group think you're hot Cool
BTW no need to bite Devil's head off.

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