trusts

leilan84 SG

there is this gal that i've been together with for nearly a year, she's a near divorce case when we were together, so i'm not the third party here....
things went well for us for the first 8 months until her ex asked her back.... and she went back.... she told me that in her heart, she love me the most and forever, but now, i can nolonger sense any love from her anymore...
i'm in great pain now....

i'm just a sore loser... i hate myself for putting so much trust in her... I HATE MYSELF!!!!

i'll forgive her... but not myself never...... Evil or Very Mad

SnowFlag SG

I think you are. You can advise her on how to make better her marriage, but apparently you didn't.

leilan84 SG

hers case dragged for nearly half a year...
i think it's tidious... it's the guy who wanted it...
she tried to save it... but the guy inisisted....

ironic

Blueskyz SG

Personally, I feel that the happiness of the person I love is most important, whether his/her happiness is being with me or not. Neutral

Let her go if you love her enough, you want her to be happy, don't you?

Please don't hate yourself, my friend.

Devil1976 SG

You've SAID... Whatever's the BACKGROUND.... Whatever HAPPENED... It's OVER... Just ACCEPT IT... Whether you like it or not...?

Hating yourself so much probably won't anything too...?

OwenMania SG

i can understand ur feeling ...
just relax and give urself more time ...

but how come she is so fickle?
can u elaborate more?
do they have kids?
wats the reason for divorce?

leilan84 SG

they qurrel too often that's what she told me

mimi71 SG

Idea Don't waste your time and effort on her, just move on there is still hope in finding a better one or a better woman in your life. Well at the meantime you can have a break you know chill out and relax.. you are still young, learn to stay cool and positive. And remember this that you're not the only person on earth who got this problem so think positive always.. Cool Cool

Devil1976 SG

So...? For ANY relationship that you go into, you should always give a room that it MIGHT fail... Though you probably won't want that to happen Question

leilan84 SG

thanks...
i'm trying but it's tough....
it really is... i'm already so used to having her by my side...

CenturionMBT SG

Do you take love as an investment or as a companionship? No such thing as give and expect something in return. You give to make somebody happy and thats the bottomline. If she leaves you with a smile, acknowledging your love, you have succeeded. But she leaves you in tears, you have failed.Cos what matters most is that she is happy. And that’s the bottomline. So dun be an idiot and think that it is all your fault.You were never wrong. As long as she is wearing a smile, you were never wrong.