Working and studying are really different matters. So u might
wan to make some changes to adjust to each other's schedules. Rem
shes ur gf and not ur wife. If u really wan a long rls with her, u
have to win her trust with ur heart.
I feel that u are making a committment to make her ur wife and u
wan to be with her. However, ur gf is making some committments to
the relationship instead. I would say that u are wrong but dont
take it to the extreme extent. As i have mentioned b4, rite now, u
2 are in a relationship, not engaged to each other.
Physical contact requires time. Give her more time. Its a phase in
a relationship. However this phase can change dependent on ur
thinking. If u read too much into things and stress ur gf too much,
the phase may be gone. I would suggest ur gf is just trying to
settle into her work and also work things out with u slowly. U 2
have just started work and need time to adjust to it.
Give urself some time to work things out. Remember that trust is
the most important aspect of a relationship. Since u 2 are together
now, y not njoy the happy moments shared together and treasure it?
Oh and one last thing to remind u, marriage is a very serious
matter to a girl cos if she marry the wrg guy she will regret
forever. So I think thats y at the moment she doenst wan to committ
too much.
Dun worry. Things
will be fine.
