I din noe the exact story. BUT I feel ALL she need is some1 to
support her (Not depend on) . Personally i feel u r too harsh to
her. Every1 went thru tat stage. How bad they took after a r/s
differ from each person. some may juz be lucky to have friends
overcome tat stage.
Previously, some1 was so emotional tat I tot she will commit
suicide. I accompany her everywhere, hoping she will feel better
with some1 to hold on. I din ask for her gratitude. But hope she
can now put some persistence in helping another in need. She is not
hopeless even if the world feels she is...
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my words to tweety....
U need a purpose in Life. Time to move forward... A Time when to
let it go. Life is precious & please remember that death is
NEVER a solution. PERSISTENCE is the word. U shd know the feeling
of losing some1 dear. Spare a thought for ur the many who cares for
U - Ur family members, friends, Susan.... It may take time to heal
the wounds in U. & I URGE U NEVER TO GIVE
UP.
If U r studying, channel the thoughts into the books. it will hurt
less. If U r working, keep urself busy so U wun have the time to
daydream. U muz find a will to live on.
I always use the following to encourage ppl when they r down
DUN CRY WHEN IT'S OVER...... SMILE 'B COS IT
HAPPENS
Hope the next time when i see u, u will be bleaming with joy. Dun
let susan always worry about U. She have her own problems to solve.
I believe u r old enough to think 
Rgds & best wishes,
xian