and don't fall into the fallacy of keeping her happy for all the
wrong reasons.
as in don't try to change yourself to suit her.*
if she doesn't like you for who you are, let her go.
like her for who she is, and she you too.
try not to idealise her.
or else your world will come apart.
in fact, if you marry her, and you have not been realistic about
her,
you will be damned to hell.
i mean, um, the chance of a divorce is 89%..
ask yourself honestly,
is she worth protecting? supporting?
*unless if you are an ex convict intending to change for the sake
of protecting someone worthwhile...
