Originally posted by Yunhaier:
It's not about she wanting you as a back-up - its
about you who needs her and not vice vista.
You employ excuses to prevent yourself from moving with your own
life - you kept thinking that if she was hurt, you want to be there
for her because you want to protect her at all cost. The problem
is, [b]does she wants that kind of shelter you
provide?
You wanna love, but does she wanna receive them? Apparantly not
forthcoming.
You wanna shower affection, but is she appreciating it? As a
friend, probably yes. Anything further than that? Difficult to
say.
You should have move on, but you CHOSE to stay. You don't need advice - you need a
decision.
P.S: Are you a Taurus, Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces? 
Cheers [/b]
wat u suggest here is that i should move on w my life??
i did tried tt.. but i keep on comin back to the vicious cycle of
love..
i`m scared.. i could be verydetermined to leave her.. but once i
see her or listened to her voice it`ll all come back to me.. all
the memories of her..
unless u forbid me to go to her neighbourhood or places where we do
shoppin..otherwise when i go to such places i`ll be reminded of
her..
everytime i pass by these places i`ll SEE the 2 of us walkin
together..
the images are too terrible for me to phantom...
and i`m not any of the astrological sings u mentioned above..
anyway i`ve tried to love match the 2 of us in some programmes.. it
says we haf a rather high score..
