i’ve been having this problem all my life. my father has been
lousy controlling his temper. recently he started to show signs of
becoming senile, by hoarding old things he had bought from sungei
road. now, my small three room flat is totally packed up with no
space to even walk through the house. it is becoming so filthy that
it has sparked off a skin allergy on me. i have tried many times to
talk to him to clear up the place and he kept procrastinating. it
has been a total of 5times in less than a year that he said he
will, but nothing was ever done. whenever i raise my voice, he
would hit me or challenge me to a physical fight outside the house,
which i smartly declined. the problem is that he has a 60%
ownership of the house. my mum has no way of buying another house
due to lack of funds. as such we are stuck here. i would like to
discuss what options i have to make my life better. i have thought
of getting them to sign divorce papers, but from there, where will
me, my mum and bro stay? i do not wish to bring in the law unless
its absolutly needed. i have an ambition to become an air force
pilot, which i am working hard to achieve. one of the requirements
to be a pilot is to have a stable family history, which the
SAF would check by looking into legal
records. i do not want to place my ambition at great risk.