falling in love???again???

last SG · 2004-09-28T08:08:24+00:00

no la actually quite a long time ago i noe i not suitable for r.s now. ahaha

bladez87 SG

trying hard to find the meaning of liking n loving some1...trying hard to find out who r those who i really like...

lately juz developed feelings for a gal...
she 18 i 17.alot of prob sia...i juz donno how to say...she christian, i buddhist. she from China here on a student pass, i singaporean...(arboden). she straight Ad student aiming for top student in her course. i m juz a passing student. she gal i boy >.> duh. she is average looking etc etc. introvert n such. i oso no tok to her much, until recently when i tok to her, n went meals with her...den i realised tat i kinda like her...at 1st when we 1st met in our combined class, she wasnt the type of gal i was looking for... but i oso donno y suddenly this feeling n emotion crept on me...den rite now...my mind is all about her...went out with her this morning or rather...noon. met for a short proj...actually is nth la juz chit chat while she do proj. den went for lunch. made her eat lunch. well...i eating look very terrible de...chi xiang hen nan kan.she was luffing as she see me eat. - marks le. when she dropped her straw, i no take new straw for her bcos i paiseh. so many stalls at market i donno which stall to take...not nice ma...- marks again.after eating...felt like vomiting...-marks again... insisted in sending her home...-marks again...carried a joke too far in bus...- A LOT OF MARKS again...haix... den kept sending her sms...she no reply...obviously she angry with me...-marks...called her when she sleeping...-marks again... haix...

what shld i do sia... failure in life sia...

Devil1976 SG

Learn to take life easier... One step at a time...

Being too fast and hasty would only spoil the soup....

the.raven SG

umm…this time not my fault right? dont blame me hor….

keuriseudo SG

Yeah, relax dude. Cool

Take it real easy. Make it real slow.

From what you telling me, or should I say... us, I doubt that this girl is easy to deal with. You need a lot of patience. Hell lots of it!

Moreover, she's from China. I'm not trying to be racist or anything, please don't get me wrong. But I think you need to take your time to smoothen out the friendship first. Then come back and post again. Mr. Green

kaobeikaobu SG

dun try too hard and too fast..juz be urself confidently.... Mr. Green

icyprincess SG

be urself. develop frenship first. only when u feel at ease with her u can go after her Smile

gd luck!

i.c.y

Kennerve SG

Wah.. Can see you are going at a very fast pace.. Frm where I read your post, reading it half way, I can see that its more like a puppy love that sort of thing.. hmmz.. Not that I wanna throw cold water at you.. I would like to ask you this.. Should you 2 work things out and come together as a BGR, how long do you think you are going to last?
Not saying that you should not or what.. Your age gap and hers is perfectly ok.. 1 year difference, thinking and such is not a prob.. Are you going to stay and migrate to china to stay with her if she insist you to? Do you think your parents and hers will accept each other religion?

Fluffy.white.sheeP SG

take things slowly and easy
even when i read i can see that u're trying too hard and too fast

hOmEz SG

relax dude !

Stay cool always Cool

101wish SG

love always starts from like..maybe u r too rush, n tat gal is nt tinking of r/s now..or sometimes a gal lik to scold u, doesn't mean tat she hates u..maybe kinda of "fun" oso..dun feel disheartened, jia you Laughing

bladez87 SG

we noe each other for 3mths le.
always joking n having fun together la.in a grp tat is.
we meet for class n proj on a regular basis.
juz tat lately, we mix around more fequently den b4.n i played with her la as in toking play...slowly.i oso noe...i not trying to jio her or anything...
but from my recent actions...i think its quite obvious...but non the less, we take it as she donno la. not tat i saying she might not noe.
donno y oso can like her. mayb bcos she treats ppl good ba. i donno wat to do oso.haha

Fluffy.white.sheeP SG

ask yourself if u want a relationship at your age
if u do think about the responsibilities and commitments u'd have to make
be mature about your decisions!

if u realli want to go ahead, try sounding her out about how she feels about u (i.e. indirect or direct hinting) or can also ask her friends secretly... Laughing
if it's positive then go ahead but dun be too imposing on her or give her to much pressure when u ask if she wants to enter a relationship with u.
if not tt good, dun feel sad, u can always try to get to know her better since u're already meeting her on a regular basis. give her some time to know u better and hopefully she'd like u as much as u like her.

bladez87 SG

that the prob...
this friday will b the end of our class...
bcos we r combined class...
after this week is exam, den after exam our modules change le.den no more same class...

Gandalf. SG

That should not be a big problem.Get her number and stay in touch with her.
Ask her out for lunch,dinner,a drink,movies etc,while keeping it slow and steady like what the other forumnites have mentioned.

Good Luck! Smile

bladez87 SG

ohh ya…y i so stupid…but asking her out directly for a date…is..like..too obvious le ba…n she not those going out type. bcos she alone in singapore, n she those studious type…wan ask her out …hard sia…

bladez87 SG

TMR FULL MOON NIGHT!!!
should i ask her out???plz help...haha
we stay quite close each other. roughly 20min bus ride for me.
if ask her out...my intention will b quite obvious...
if don ask her out...might miss a chance...haix...

Gandalf. SG

start with something simple,like lunch in school?

however introvert she may be,she still has to eat ya? Razz

bladez87 SG

TMR IS VIEW MOON NITE!!!....
shld i ask her out?

Gandalf. SG

I'm not sure.I don't know her.

What's important is whether or not it(shang yue) interests her. Smile

bladez87 SG

she go shang yue..
i go shang her...haha...donno leh...