Diff scenarios, same problems

A Beautiful Mind SG

Hi all

Got to date this gal recently. Everything went well on the 1st day, she sms me that nite.
But subsequently, no more contacts from her. I tried sms-ing, but she seems cold.

With close references to this.. somethk similar occured: Few mths bac, i managed to find my ex whom i lost contact for abt 2yrs..
Everythk went well on the 1st day, we celebrated her bdae, sent her home & she sms me that nite.
Following that, i asked her out again. She agreed easily, but would always tell me she's busy at the last min.
The last time, she didnt even ans my call or reply my msg. I jus waited for her the whole evening on the day we supposed to meet.
Never did i hear frm her again.... Crying or Very sad

I felt so shattered then. Aft pickin up the courage to date again, such probs occured again.. deja vu feelin Wink

Any advices? Is she jus busy? If there was anythk wrong during the 1st meeting, i wld have sensed it. I honestly felt she was actually quite happy.
Did she sms that nite out of courtesy? (cause i sent her home)
Subsequently, she never contacted me again...

I feel quite sianz now. Dun think i wld con't msgin this gal cause i'm afraid same thk may happened again.

Devil1976 SG

Maybe somehow she lost your contact no.?

Unless there's something really wrong with you (which you should be able to easily notice)... No point thinking on the pessimistic side of things all the time yeah...?

paradox86 SG

Is she having exams now O/N's lvl ? If she's probably she's trying to study for her exams. You went out with her, after u sent her hme; she nv contact ya. IF she's having her exams.. thn dun bother.. most probably she's bz with her sch workz. this happened to me when sms sent doesn't get any reply bak or simply just a quick replied. i leave her alone and she contact me after 2 days. take it easy dude, tink on the positive side. Wink

A Beautiful Mind SG

That'll be the saddest consolation 4 myself.. Confused

How's that possible?? For my ex, she jus refused to ans the phone when i called her..
Actually few wks later, i did somethk.. i called her using another no. She answered..

A Beautiful Mind SG

She's workin now whilst i am in the uni..

BaByBoY SG

Dear brother,
i supposed you`ve known the gal ( current one ) for sometime?
and i supposed the date tt no one appeared was from ur ex`s??
don worry abt this gal here..
let ur heart huide u along
if u find that ur smses are not getting you anywhere
u may consider trying other ways to contact her??
haf u tried calling her in place of the sms??

it`s been proven that voices carry much more information than puerly words alone. they bring across the emotions and mood..
u can almost feel the presence of each other..
of cuz nothing comes even close to being there physically..

don let this momentary fall deter u from standing up again
don let ur past prevent u from making a new step

one quote from Master Yunhaier
If you always love the way you always do, you always get what you always get.

Learn from your past exp
identify wat went wrong and heal it the right way
don ignore if there`s not reply
CALL HER to find out why??

Gd luck my fren
BaByBoY

Devil1976 SG

Why you go and do that? Shocked If she don't wanna answer, she must have her reasons... Unless you suspect it's a great misunderstanding and somehow can figure out what it is...? Even then, things might not be helped too...? Rolling Eyes

gerrykoh SG

Looks like yr ex. doesn't want to get back together as she doesn't answer yr calls. U should move on.
As for the other girl, try calling her again after a few days.
During yr date, did conversation flows or was there awkward silence?

A Beautiful Mind SG

i know it was kinda of lame... But i jus had to know wat happened. Anyway, she ans but i didnt say anythk..

A Beautiful Mind SG

GUess i am stuck in the past.. its like i'm very puzzled why thks turned out like that.
And if i dun find out, i jus can't the urge to move on..

Jazzytunez SG

Cld u ask her y?

A Beautiful Mind SG

how to ask? she dun even ans my calls..