It's very normal to feel uneasy, sad or stressed when one is
thrust into a new environment or getting along with new ppl, be it
at work or studies....
Especially when you had wonderful times in the past....some of
which is the happiest and unmemorable ones....And each of these
unforgettable moments...happened at different phases of our
life..and some had it few times more...
Personally, I had few happy moments, one of which surprisingly
happened during army days. Of coz, there are sad and stressed
period but most of the most wonderful moments I have in my life
happened during that time.
But initially, I detested army life so much...seeing the worst
ppl....dreading booking into army..with dead-line work that has no
ending...depressed, sad, worried....every moment.
But I began to realise it's nt the environment or the ppl that has
problems. The problem is me. Had to change else it
would be unfair to myself for . From then on, I gradually made a
lot of true friends frm diff walks of life, helping each other out
thru difficult times and I gained new perspectives, life
experiences and insights frm friends...frm the cynnicals to one who
genuinely care.
Why some ppl had so many unforgetable moments in their life
while the rest had only a few? The difference is how you
think.
If you want to create more unforgetable moments throughout your
life, each unique in its own, you have to stop standing and start
moving if nt slowly. No special formula. Simple as tt.
To make full use of ur life and have a positive life
outlook, will make a small difference in an environment, but a HUGE
DIFFERENCE to the person beside u.
Wish u all the best in everything including ur studies!! Play hard
too!!
(If u managed to see this msg)
Sorry for being long-winded...haa haa..old liao lar.. 