Well... i dunno the characteristics of ur gf so can't be sure
whats she's trying to do...
it might be a crush, so she felt she have to get to know this
guy..otherwise it will keep bugging her and she cannot concentrate
on you. And they stay so close together, the urge will keep getting
stronger lo.U should remember the last time u have a crush on
someone else... its those kind of feeling lo. Keep trying ways and
means to try to know that person, and stealing glances. As she says
it a crush, her interest for him might fade after she knows him. OR
she might felt this other guy might be more suitable or she likes
him more.
Anyway, it's only 2 months into your relationship. I bet both of
you have never discuss is this for real ? For long term commitment?
If so, then i would say both of your options are still open. Cause
the understanding between the both of you are still not strong
enough. If you decide that you want to be a stayer, you have to
make your intentions really clear to her. otherwise she might also
think that you are still shopping around.
You have to relax... If the guy is hitting on her, she decided to
go, then wish her all the best and be happy for yourself. Cause you
did not waste a lot of time. 2 months to know that she's
fickle-minded is not long actually.
At least she's being honest with you, or she's trying to make you
jealous. Some gals likes to do that .. make their guy jealous and
stuff... Cause they are craving for attention... making the guy
worried a bit..
Mayb it's just really friendship. Anyway, before you guys are
together, is she a very friendly and sociable person? I felt she
is.. thats y she could make friends with people so easily... if
thats the case, dun fret. Cause u know she's friendly even before
you are together with her. So whats the big deal of her making 1
new friend? She won't think she's wrong.. she will feel that y r u
so petty and unreasonable..