Hey. I've a pretty serious problem. Seems like no matter what I
do, gals are not a bit interested in me. So I'm a classic failure
when it comes to dating and relationships.
You see, previously I was pretty much a recluse and introverted
guy. I didn't talk much nor try to be prominent or outstanding
hence no gal took note of me.
Then 3 years ago, I had a crush on a gal and things didn't work
out. I analyzed what went wrong and why I liked her (she was the
friendly and out-going sort but not exactly pretty either) and
thought maybe my cold and reclusive personality is what turning
people off. Hence I decided I need to change my public relation
skills.
Therefore, I tried to be as friendly as possible to all my friends
(male and female). I tried keeping in touch with them on regular
basis when possible, sending them New Year and Christmas cards and
popping them a hello instant message if they go online in ICQ or
MSN, and trying to start casual conversations if they're not
busy.
Still, everyone sounds very cold and uninterested even though I've
already taken my first step to be more friendly and outgoing.
OK. Though not very handsome, but I'm not that horrible-looking
either that I scare people off. I would put myself as an average or
alightly-above average looking guy. And in terms of financial
status, not rich but not in heavy debt either, so somewhere in the
middle.
Now I don't know what I can do. What's wrong with me?
