Originally posted by Devil1976:
Socialising in good but take your time... And don't do such things
in an expectant of getting a 'return'... Don't do it for the SAKE
of doing it too...?
Perhaps your friends around you have already got such an impression
of you... So it won't be so easily to change that impression they
have of you... Takes time...
tt's good advice. to your old friends, it's quite shocking
especially if someone
suddenly have a change of attitude overnight. they could be
wondering like
wad's wrong wif this guy or is he up to something? to those whom u
know,
it's better if u would show your enthusiastic side slowly and on
more personal instances as group situations r always awkward and
suddenly sticking out like a sore thumb is a no-no.
on the note of making new friends, yeah go ahead and be as friendly
as possible but not excessively as it once again, it would only put
your motive into question.
everything takes time and take one small step at a time.
for deciding to step out of your introverted self and giving
yourself a whole new image, i congrat you and applaud u.
