honestly that's an overused phrase...
not that it's wrong, but that's the FIRST thing anyone says, when
someone shares a story like this.
so i guess NO ONE has ever heard of a blissful marriage that began
with a cheating party?
i'm not advocating that anyone falling out of love with their
partner should leave them and hop onto another ship (concurrently
or otherwise).
I don't think we should be quick to condemn relationships that
start that way. NO ONE, in thier right minds, would wanna go thru
the hassle and heartache of being a, or with, a third party. wat
makes it worth it for them? think about it for a moment.
your heart is fragile, esp when u've ever suffered the loss of a
loved one to a third party. so too, are the hearts of those whose
friends do not understand, just by virtue of them being a third
party. it ALWAYS hurts if u have such a story, and no one seems to
understand wat u are going thru, including urself.
so back to the phrase, if he can do it to someone else, he can do
it to you: pple can do it REGARDLESS of whether they've done it to
someone else before.
