older woman, younger man

last SG · 2004-09-17T12:06:39+00:00

maybe you can consider being a 'male social escort' in that case, you get to have your fun fling, choice of mature women and MONEY ........

nuchio SG

just want your opinions...

if you are 27 years old male, will you go out with a 37 year old female (looks like 28?)

why Question

the_don SG

define ” go out ”.

nuchio SG

date

Xcert SG

I take it to mean go out hang around...not marry har...

as long as the gal looks chio enough...I dont think a lot of people will say no.

Ito_^ SG

i doubt so i would. chio or not.

nuchio SG

do you think she will be kind of 'old'?

what if things get serious .. sex is one thing... (maybe the good thing)

but even if she doesnt pressurise you... you may feel stressed... have to marry her or something right?

Kennerve SG

Just my point of view.. There are many people in the world who are dating older women and some are even married for God noes how many donkey years.. look at the age gap where the gal is older than the guy.. On average, the age gap is 3 years..

Your female fren is 37 years old and if you are a 27 year old male, don u think that age gap is kinda big? Yes, although she may look like 28, or even younger, the fact and point is she is older.. Imagine what people will start gossiping when the truth is out.. To you, it may be something that is ok with.. But to the girl, she may be slightly turned off with such comments..

Althought things may work out with both of you.. It may not work out in the long run if esp one of or both of you have that sort of "pride feeling"

Don u think its more like a crush than true love? Wink

sleepycat SG

if the guy/gal in question is so distracted by this age issue between them, then chances are there'll be dates down the road when they'll have lotsa demons to kill... so, if nothing has started, then it's best that nothing is started... think twice, thrice.. & more.. chillz Wink

Ogbunwezeh SG

I like this type of combination, i love older ladies. The look so exotic, classy n sensual. Smile

dream_ing SG

If u only want to be her friend, it shdn't be an issue in the 1st place.
If u want to win her heart & marry her, then u must learn to face social pressure from ur family, friends and society & convince her to do the same.
If u just want to sleep with her, make sure she knows ur intention. Dun be a scum & leave her longing for ur love after u have succeeded.

Btw, I'm 25 but I have dated women in their 40s. All the best to u.

Qitai SG

There is a guy who has the same name as me has his wife being 10 years older than him.

SnowFlag SG

there are ppl who will, but not me Mr. Green

gerrykoh SG

ya, I also know of this couple- wife older than the husband 10 yrs.
They are happily married but don't have any kids cos wife too old to conceive

Kenashi SG

Love know no bounds.
If I really love her, I don't give a damn to age barrier.
Age is just a number.
Mr. Green

choco B SG

If she didn't say that she wants to marry the guy, he doesn't have to put societal pressures on himself wad.

27 & 37 still sounds ok

pete98 SG

10 years is too much I feel. 5 years older is still ok in my view. But if they are really commited to be together I wish them happiness too.

Fuqua SG

Can i be honest?
I think you're not man enuff or mature enuff for HER if u have to ask this question in this forum.

mimi71 SG

what's the hurry?... don't rush things out, you can still hang around wif her, friends first talk about relationship later if you're still not sure about her or her age or about your age once you reach that certain age and time, you will know people change, there are certain time and limit people will change by themselves you have to consider that also, but if you still love her if you really truely love her, you have to wait ... love can wait, love won't run anywhere... age is not the matter here but trust, care, TLC, and all the good things about love you have to consider think hard....dear Cool

Devil1976 SG

Yes.

Devil1976 SG

No.