laurence82 SG i am not sure about waiting..i mean life moves on..u might find someone else whom not only you will like, but who cherish you too...
foxwalk SG firm NO. why put yourself through such pain. there are people out there who deserve you and whom you deserve than the idiot who doesn't know how to appreciate you. dun waste your time on them.
Ice79 SG feeling is not something that will just disappear. guess i will not wait, but also not purposely go out find new person. so while he is with someone else, if a right guy comes along, can hit off, then will move on
dream_ing SG U only live life once. Think of urself one yr from now... will u regret liking her if she doesn't reciprocate ur love by then? If no, continue liking her. If yes, forget her & move on with ur life.
Magnus SG It's difficult to stop that kinda feeling if she still keep in contact with you and like, tell you their problems, share with you their angst, joy etc.. I will probably able to stop when we slowly drifts away..
simulacrum SG for those who say they will stop liking the other party, does that mean they can switch off their emotions like pressing a button? i'm currently in this lousy state. i know it's impossible between us but i really can't stop liking her..juz like that. and most importantly i do not know if i should stop liking her juz bcoz it's impossible between us...
parn SG Yes of course, it is always healthy to go along with your feelings. You can only like the person when you really feel that you like the person. It doesn't matters if the person's heart is filled by anybody or not. But one thing though, like the person as long as your heart allows you to do so. There will eventually be one fine day when you will wake up and your heart will stop liking that person. Wait for that day to come...otherwise, continue to trust your heart and like that person if that is what will makes you happy. Like them as long as you can like them.
dirge SG Both she and I have our own relationship... however, things were bit rocky for each our R/S but is not at the same time. So I asked her does she have an interest in me back then (6yrs ago) She said yes....as in recently when we decided to catch up...? We catch up a few times and share bits of our sorrows I also sounded tat I too have an interest in her...but all this would not only affect the two us...but rather 4 people... tricky huh...should we follow our heart or not...
sleepycat SG ya.. walk on, move on, keep running.. don't just stay put.. don't live life entirely by feelings.. there're times when we have to step out of our vulnerable hearts for a while and breathe alittle with our minds.. now, look at the rustling leaves in the wind.. cheers everyone..
