parn SG Wah...you so direct and blunt. Yah...I also think so...usually pple paisei to say it is them...then they used frd as an excuse.
parn SG ericia...I think the best person to answer your friend's worries would be a doctor. It doesn't means having 2nd abortion will decrease your chances of having a baby later on. It is just a possible that it will...but not definite one. Depends on luck and the skills of the doctor also....some doctors anyhow do it one. But of course the best is to have a family lor....the bf must be responsible lah. I think this is one good way to see if her bf is really true to her or not. Some bf heard baby and marriage, run away and faster find excuse to break off the relationship. Some responsible one will marry the gal. Whatever it is, your frd and her bf need to sort it out themselves...nothing you can do anyway. Unless...you are a bit interested in her bf, and you want to help her. You not angry with her bf for making your frd's stomach big?
M©+square SG Ericia, i'm going to be harsh here. If you're her friend - True friend i mean. Tell her to leave her present boyfriend or whichever sexual partner she's with now. And then tell her not to say those CB highlighted language. If she really thinks that she's that friggin young and doesn't want to friggin UPSET HER FAMILY!!! Den why allow all these things to happen?! Young age + abled body + Sound mind - contraceptive methods = Irresponsible! Girls should take care of themselves because in the end....the ones who wants to play are the ones who suffer. They have to bear the child while her bf can still go around making 'love' to other girls. Go tell her to do the right things now. And Don't be a Stupid girl anymore. *Upset M© leaves thread*
huiz SG ought to be more responsible for herself mah….if u get pregnant at such a age, u suffer the most, not ur parents. n furthermore it takes two hands to clap, doesnt mean the girl get pregnant has no fault at all, unless dun tell me she is forced.
jolin80 SG no point to figure whether who is pregnant nw the best thing is to help her by giving her advice it is too late to blame whose fault is that right haiz kena pregnant twice n had abortion twice that is not a funnie issue she is killing two innocent life again n again the baby has the right to come to this world stop klling babies ericia do give "yr frd" yr best of support n comfort i believe she need someone she trust most nw tell her not do anything silly in the future no matter wad we gals always stand at the losing side
on tenterhooks SG there are many couples out there who are trying so hard to have a baby but for one reason or another, fail..... and here there is a very young girl who has killed a life and is going to do it again.... i understand there is no choice for your friend lar...still.... haiz...life....such irony! hope your friend wakes up and dun fool around anymore, especially when she doesn't know how to protect herself!
parn SG I think the government's calling is more directed at those highly educated. Smart guy f.u.c.ked Smart gal = Smarter baby.
Yunhaier SG 1st abortion didn't teach her anything - so do you think the baby is removed for nothing? Definitely. If 2nd abortion is going to be the same, then why remove it? If a soul cannot be used to gain a lesson, so I seriously wonder what else could? Cheers
JazzyJas SG ehm...2nd abortion would certainly affect her chances of conceiving in the future... and easily miscarriaged if she got pregnant again becuz her uterus(womb) got damaged.. although the research is not strong enough, women who aborted it b4 complained of this problem(according to what i studied la).. so ask ur friend to consider carefully and take care of herself... remember to use condom or any contraception... better be safe than sorry lor..
Devil1976 SG No point worrying for the future now. A decision still have to be made anyway? Talk about choices...? Well.. Used to have them.. Now? Don't... Anyway, sort of off track liao.... For your question of whether it would affect future impregnancy... Think it's more appropriate for you to seek a PROFESSIONAL's ADVICE
Devil1976 SG By the way... Never called this number before... Not sure if it still works... But you can give it a shot? - For pregnant women and their partners who need help. For example have doubts abt keeping the baby, are confused, need help and support, etc. : 1800-6868623
JazzyJas SG i have a question... sorry to interupt if u were a girl, and u got pregnant... ur bf suggested that u should abort it as he was not financially stable. would u follow his decision and abort the baby? would u still stay with him?
my_name_is_Natasha SG aiyo... I pity the baby... I ever watched abortion films during bio lesson and during sex education in school.... the baby is actually SCREAMING when the instrument is inserted into the womb to kill him/her.. you know how they do it??!! They take a big tweezer, clip the hand, twist and pull... out comes the hand, same for the other limbs, then the head, then the body... then they place on tray to make sure everything is there... so cruel.... Ask her friend to give birth to the baby and give him/her up for adoption.... she owe this baby a life... she had already made 1 BIG mistake... 2 BIG mistakes doesn't make one thing right.... AARRGGHHH....... cak sim ah!!
