Ways to move on ??

last SG · 2004-09-06T17:17:16+00:00

well, try not to thk too much, get to know more guys..hehe, being a single not a bad thg afterall, u can learn new thgs such as taking up a course, perhaps u...

Blueskyz SG

Hi,

I'm a newbie here. Anyone has any suggestions on how to move on after a failed relationship?

Been trying hard to salvage it but nothing seems to work Sad

Guess the only choice now is to move on but its really hard to let go, or rather I'm not willing to let go. Sad

MooKu SG

Fill your life with activities that may help to take your mind off things?

Lord Kang SG

Letting go needs time…Fill your life with other things…Do things u always wanted to do and go places u always wanted to do…Everything needs time…Just let time heal the wound…

larry_longwei SG

yeps.. keep ur mind occupied wif something..
e.g. glue urself to sgforums.. hehe Mr. Green

http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=92322

Himbo SG

Go church

[email protected]_arms SG

Go out with other girls. Take up weight-training. Play soccer. Play AD&D or Warmachine at PI. Drink. Errrrrr Draw.. i dunno.

SnowFlag SG

chang tong bu ru dun tong....just turn over a new life Mr. Green

Blueskyz SG

Thanks.

I have tried everything but nothing seems to work. Crying or Very sad

larry_longwei SG

glue urself to the forum n start crapping.. u'll get over it soon.. Wink

larry_longwei SG

Read thru tis..

http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=91918

Himbo SG

Nothing seems to work ah? Then die liao lor. That's it. The End. That means you will never move on already. You will spend the rest of your life missing whoever. I think you will never get married liao. But even if you do get married, it will only be pretend only, coz you will never forget this girl coz u tried and nothing works already. Die....so sad for you...

Blueskyz SG

Shocked

By the way, I'm a gal. Embarassed

I can only try my best. Confused

the Bear SG

trying your best is good...

maybe you could do stuff.. stuff you liked doing by yourself...

or heck! go out with us!!

make new friends!!

i think there'll be a sentosa outing soon.. 19th i think.. join us if you can for beach volleyball, football, cycling, blading, swimming, suntanning or just sit around and vege, play daidee or just indulge in conversation Wink

or the other smaller ones.. there are movies, fishing, ice-cream... stuff like that... just like on sunday, bunch of people went to Pulau Ubin and another mob went to Fish and Co to celebrate MoonIce's birthday Wink

you can move on... give it time and activities Wink

we all can... if we put our minds and souls into it Wink

be well...

p.s. of you dunno what sentosa i'm talking about, click on the smiley =>

larry_longwei SG

take it ez la.. he's juz trying reverse-psychology...

u'll get thru it.. no worries.. u hav all we forumites backing u.. Rolling Eyes

Ice79 SG

"let's break up" is always so easy to say, but how many of us are actually ready to move on upon saying that Rolling Eyes

keep busy helps in getting over someone, but we can't possibly be busy 18 hrs a day, even machines also break down lah. when time to slow down pace, memories will still come back. guess for those who are still recovering from a failed relationship, we can only hope that time will be the ultimate answer Sad

larry_longwei SG

Time May Heal.. But The Scars Remains..
but i guess its still the best solution.. Rolling Eyes

Yunhaier SG

The day when you have moved on, is the day when you felt you could more or less walk emotionally away from your plight and when you looked back, you know it's merely memories left. Sometimes, we want to move on, but we subconsciously held back. Don't - release yourself.

P.S: You won't be able to forget, avoid trying to forget. Learn to get used. Idea

Cheers

Blueskyz SG

Guess time is the only answer. Sad

Blueskyz SG

u'll get thru it.. no worries.. u hav all we forumites backing u.. Rolling Eyes [/b][/quote]

Thanks.

Blueskyz SG

Seems like a good suggestion, I may consider joining in.