Is theresuch a thing as perfect love?

last SG · 2004-09-08T07:23:51+00:00

huh… can give more profound answers a not?

watdoido SG

She feeling tis way cuz she has been hurt in her other rel... yeah both physically n mentally. So her trust in guys in v low. She has the mentality tat love muz be perfect and juz why will feel confused. I really don noe how to let her noe that there's no need to torture herself

Yunhaier SG

The perfect love?

A perfect love is when you can love your imperfect partner perfectly.

There is not way she can expect a relationship without hurt as a basis of a perfect love. With love; comes intimacy; comes emotional closeness; come friction; come reality. If she is not willing to be ease with you and herself emotionally, there is no way love could enter completely and mould her. Fear is one factor that hinders people from having fulfilling relationship.

Like? Love? Why does the confusion comes in NOW? Shouldn't it be solved before a relationship is born? This question your situations before you two got together and whether the risk/doubt/etc at the point of time is brewing now. Unless you are telling me that you have led a relationship for quite some time and she felt routine and dead. Then it would be for love or duty scenario.

What kind of help do you need from US to let you understand if you two loved each other? It makes zero sense.

P.S: Maybe you can explain MORE about your situations from day zero of your relationship, how you met, become together, past crisis, etc? I believe it will help you to understand better. Idea

Cheers

Ogbunwezeh SG

There is no true or perfect love in this era. Wake up from ur dream n blindness of love, face the real world.

the Bear SG

perfection?

nah.. won't happen.. but there is nothing on God's Earth that can stop us from trying!

and in that trying, we strive towards it... mayhap something wonderful may result? for something short of perfection, is still beautiful.. and what is more beautiful than love? Very Happy

as for your girl, maybe she's confused.. and she'll need some soul-searching to find that answer...

i wish the both of you well...

Magnus SG

Maybe, initially it's 'like' and as time goes by, become 'accidental love'?

Or. you started with 'love' all along, but she treat it as 'like'.
Now, she's confuse and have to decide..

keuriseudo SG

Perfect love in the human world - No such thing.

But if you're talking about relationship with God, it's Agape love - perfect love.

Anyway, back to the topic. As I mentioned, there is no such thing as perfect love between humans because we are not perfect people. Being not so perfect, it is almost impossible to love someone perfectly.

As for your situation, if a girl doesn't feel that much for you, perhaps you can talk to her about it and find out more. But if situation were to remain the same and if she continues to doubt, then I suggest you pick up yourself and your male ego, and move on.

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