Love is dashed but hopes still remain

bAbYpOotS SG

don't we find such happenings everywhere? where two person who are in a relationship comes to a point when one party, eg, A doesnt love B, the other party anymore but didn't say anything and yet still continue be together with B. and B realises that A is treating her differently. its like in her heart she knows that A doesnt really love her anymore but yet she held on to hopes that she might be wrong just because A didn't say anything. its like hanging in the air and when A actually says something, everything is dashed, the love the hopes everything is gone

she can always prepare for the worst, but she can never be prepared

love is such an irony.
sometimes it just sucks to the core.

Neutral

Ito_^ SG

den dun love, shut yr ears, close yr eyes and seal yr mouth, live like a hermit.

101wish SG

well, love is a two-way matter, so one-sided is v. painful, y not ended it, coz the guy wil eventually hurt the gal more, time is oso v impt to her too, made up ur mind whether stil wanna contimue wif her, if yes, pls try tolov her again, giv two of u a chance again, if not, tell her the truth ! be decisiive ! gosh….

Yunhaier SG

Sometimes, love just vanished, even when there isn't any major problem in the relationship. Such effect can almost be felt instantaneously from the other half - question is: do you have the courage to seek for the truth?

Understand that the woman held hope, but she should be communicating this aspect of problems and lay everything on the table instead of idling because she feared if she talked about it, it will the end of the relationship. I cannot guarantee whether it will or will not end when you speak, but definitely, if you don't - you will see it declining at such rapid rate that when you want to salvage them, its may be too late.

P.S: Never fear to put solution to problems. Because you might not have another shot at it. At least you knew, you wanted to do something and not give up free will and let fate crush you. Idea

Cheers

Xenthar SG

Love and hope is dashed when..............

When the first girl you ever plucked up the courage to say I like her did not want to accept my cheap gift

When she say cannot go out with stranger when you asked her out and then go out with a stanger in a car

When you have to slog OT every single day to earn more money to save up for my university education and people think you are money hungry

When university degree holders in the office go home early when you have to work late

When university degree holders in the office alienate you cause you not content with your job and want to find ways to improve your life

When Singapore don't give you a chance because you got no degree

When I was born in Singapore!

Devil1976 SG

Yes. When something drops to the floor and NO action is done to catch HOLD of it... VERY LIKELY CHANCE is... It's gonna be SMASHED into pieces... UNLESS it's made of RUBBER or PLASTIC..... Which is a DIFFERENT 'theory' altogether..?? < Mr. Green "

Devil1976 SG

Isn't that just how life is? Either it WORKS or it DON'T... At a GIVEN time frame.

Whether you ACCEPT it or NOT... When nothing is done (or nothing can be done?), then NOTHING is DONE....

browniebaobao SG

Yalor.. Sad

WrX_STi SG

i can onli gif my pointer: Love is never fair.

[email protected]_arms SG

Yah larrrr, which is why its important to socialise with many POTENTIAL future partners when the current one dumps you.

Agent [email protected]: It is inevitable.

gerrykoh SG

Don’t keep quiet & ignore that there is problem. Talk to your partner, who knows u may salvage the relationship. If the person really change, then no point hanging on