i need strength

patientsg SG

dear bro & sis have u ever love someone so much that wat ever problem she face u will help her to solve?Well this happen to me wen ever she call tell me abt her problem,aft hearing in my heart i wanted to help,i juz don't wan her to be so sad,juz wan her to be happy with her life,happy with wat she is doing that all.
when sometime i realish the more i help the worst it become i feel hopeless,not helping her at all but create more problem for her.
i really wan to help and see her happy but i really don't kw how.

Devil1976 SG

Be a good listner to her and console her if necessary… Sometimes by being involved and taking actions, you’ll only complicate things…

Yunhaier SG

You are not even strong to handle yourself and you wanna extend your assistance to her?

I have never advice to people (without good emotional control) to counsel your ex-crush/etc - because likely, you will return back to the mode where you can't stop yourself from liking her. Because too much emotional messages are rushing in and you can't differentiate them at all - you are playing a dangerous game in the end. (Unless you are dumping in art of seduction and playing a different ball game).

There are some people in our lives that we will lend our hands NO MATTER what - but is yours is simply just 'CARE'... or is there more? Idea

To Sunrise: This is called Self-feeding - a variation to Feed-abit Theory. - CloUdiSm Remix III.

Cheers

kaobeikaobu SG

patientsg, perhaps you can tell us more on what is it that you want to help and yet you can't...

Devil1976 is right, lending a listening ear indeed helps too.

MyNickisZ SG

Snap out of it, there are more impt things to do

gerrykoh SG

She has to learn to handle her own problems, just lend a listening ear

Eiizumi SG

Motion Supported Mr. Green x2

SunRisE SG

Originally posted by Yunhaier:

You are not even strong to handle yourself and you wanna extend your assistance to her?

I have never advice to people ([b]without good emotional control) to counsel your ex-crush/etc - because likely, you will return back to the mode where you can't stop yourself from liking her. Because too much emotional messages are rushing in and you can't differentiate them at all - you are playing a dangerous game in the end. (Unless you are dumping in art of seduction and playing a different ball game).

There are some people in our lives that we will lend our hands NO MATTER what - but is yours is simply just 'CARE'... or is there more? Idea

To Sunrise: This is called Self-feeding - a variation to Feed-abit Theory. - CloUdiSm Remix III.

Cheers [/b]

Rolling Eyes

Ito_^ SG

of cuz, bt dun worry about things dat u are not in the position to help or unable to help. juz listen and do what you can, can liao. besides, if there is one fine day she really kana something big, you’ll be there wad, so wus the worry.

patientsg SG

thks all bro & sis for the advised given,i understand wat i'm doing can b abit 2 much but i do care 4 her weather she like me or nt.In my heart i kw she treat me like a bro or i think i don't kw really but wat i kw she don't kw that i like her she think i treat like a sister(of course that true too) if i can't be her bf b her bro also can i juz don't wan her 2 kw that i like her afraid that i lose her if she kw nt bcause she leave me but is bcause i leave her i kw i get rejected if she find out(don't kw hw to face her in the future)
Anyway i do listen to her problem sometime juz b a good listener but sometime i feel that i can do more.

Again i thks all the bro & sis her for all the advise given

THKS Smile

Yunhaier SG

Just in case when you asked. Twisted Evil

Ito_^ SG

u never noe, she already knew but waiting for u to initiate first, until she grown tired of waiting and decide to kick u aside.

SunRisE SG

Rolling Eyes

ask wat?? i dun understand.. can explain further?

Yunhaier SG

Tell you later. Laughing

SunRisE SG

everything oso later lateR