Is having a partner important in your life?....

last SG · 2004-08-12T13:54:49+00:00

oh no....... paiseh paiseh. /me still koks cally~~

Sever SG

as above.....

feel free to comment.....

i'm bored, so just like to hear comments from everyone....

i'm single by the way, thus explains the question i'm asking....

parn SG

Yes...the companionship is important. Knowing that there will be always someone there to support you emotionally when you need it...is happiness. It is both sad and painful to carry all the emotional burden by yourself and having a partner who can give you advice or lend you a listening ear is important in your life. Having somebody to love and knowing that you will be appreciated in return in also equally important as it will brings you emotional satisfaction.

The world is definitely more beautiful when you see and experience it with another person. And having a partner is important as it will completes you. Smile

[email protected] SG

ultimately its important to me, but its not impt to me to MUST have a partner now. instead, it only becomes important when u’ve found the right one for u.

Qitai SG

Just don't dream too much. The person you describe may not be the same person you are going out with. Everyone has flaws and having a partner is not just about the goodies, be prepared for the bad side too.

beagle SG

hmmmm yeah i feel that having a partner is quite impt, someone for u to love, someone to talk to, someone whom u can relate to very closely, but just like what Q said, there are bad sides too, but overall it's still good to have one Very Happy btw i'm single cos nobody wants me Sad

gerrykoh SG

Yes, someone always there for me, helping & comforting me. Someone u can share all yr troubles & secrets, the good & the bad times, the one to give u children & companionship in old age.
Only if u are unable to find anyone who can give u happiness, then it is alright to be single. Don't rush, take your time.

Kinokuniya SG

maybe... not really....
i'm single and i'm happy.
and i have no intention of finding a partner.
perhaps like wat gerrykoh says, it depends. better to wait for someone compatible than to have someone who is incompatible. Smile

Larry SG

Only when u are done with what u wanna do (especially those that endanger yourself), and when u are ready to settle down.

Devil1976 SG

Maybe...? Rolling Eyes

Devil1976 SG

Not necessarily...? A partner doesn't only has to be a destiny... He / she can also be part of a journey too...? Cool

SunRisE SG

You can be single if you wan to.. if you feel that there's the kind of life you wan to live in.. but however, when circumstances come like having a partner.. is important.. as both have to commit themselves in the r/s.. and let it run as smooth as possbile.. it's both responsibilities to uphold and maintain a good relationship..

Important or not.. is up to individual.. some ppl think they needed one.. to share their physical, emotional, and spiritually needs.. Some dun.. they chose to be single.. carefree life of living..

Mr. Green

Sever SG

well, i'm overwhelmed by the replies i've seen.....

and tell you the truth, i agree with most of you...

but how rare is it to find that special someone.....

many times, it's either you love that person more or vice versa....

i havent had the chance to expirence that....

i hope the others out there have the chance to see what i've never had the luck to....

audlenelee SG

fren's fren found out bf cheating on her.

broke up.

now patching back coz cannot stand being alone.

???!! Confused

jusgal SG

yes....i wish for one who sincerely care for me. be by myside throught joy & laughter, sorrows & unhappiness.

To hold my hands at beaches even till old ages

Sever SG

i once found out my ex-gf cheated on me.

i never trusted her again...

when someone closest to you breaks your trust, it's almost impossible to gain it back....

piece of advice to all out there, never break your partner's heart.

You'll never know what kinda pain they have to go through....

Sever SG

and i wish you'll find that special someone....

Smile

audlenelee SG

precisely! if he/she could do it then, he/she could do it again!

Sever SG

so if you're in a situation where your partner cheats on you, yet you still have feelings for the person...

will you let go?

Estee SG

yeah.... once a crack is inflicted.... i dun think there's really a way to mend it.... maybe just prevent from having it crack further.... this metaphor sound ok?? ahahaha

mercutioz SG

U get ur fair share of yes n no... most ppl will say can forgive but deep in their heart, at the back of their mind, they nvr forget the betrayal.

As for me, I 'll rather let go even if the feelings r still strong. There must b a reason for the betrayal in the 1st place, it might b due 2 her or me but it no longer matters. U don't have 2b together even if u still love her, as long as she is happy.