Originally posted by SibeiSuayKia:
Nah your grasping the wrong concept son
Love and Virginity are seperate entities yet related
Virginity means Purity.
Love means unconditional thinking,believing,trusting,liking,feeling
for the
person.
Like someone cause the person is a virgin?LOL
If the other person ain't virgin or whatsoever i won't be that
bothered only
Alot of questions to be brought up in this case
If i can keep my chastity , why can't so and so keep?
From my own parents pespective
Have their children been doing well in spite of their efforts to
educate etc..?
From In-laws perspective
If i had been involved in any hanky panky , would my in-laws trust
me with their fullest heart?
From my kids perspective
Just wondering lar....IF lets say lar..u are the person reading
this and u
know that your parent last time before married got involved in alot
of sexual stuff which people and had sex with multiple partners ,
how would you react?
The same feeling you would definitely feel when it comes to , lets
say you meet your mom's lover last time who made use of her, for
lets say sex and her $$ . Would you seek revenge or
forgiveness?
It just doesn't feel right, when it comes to Happy Family .
Would you impression change?
Singapore is evolving , but it is a predominantly asian society ,
hopefully not like Tokyo..With regards to sexual materials,stuff
probably can relax but when it comes to serious matters.
and lets say both done it with others before , then as a child
would you be worried that you might be somebody else child?
These kind of stuff got no strings attached and thats why so many
problems...
Somemore these people are going to be someone big in life.
If people dig up your history..
I got no grudge against non-virgins or whatsoever, just hope and
prayers for them , hopefully they will find their true love 1
day.
Virginity sometimes maybe isn't just about 1st time , its about
exclusivity.
Some of my friends have been going stead for about 5 years,
apart from kissing and hugging ,
both of them respect each other ,
and i think this is what life should be .
[b]
Note to guys who had premarital sex:
The law protects women from alot of stuff and i think you should be
worried,
cause even 10 years have passed since you last done it with the gal
,
She can still charge you with molesting and bring you up to
court.
Loving someone doesn't mean taking advantages,
Its about challenging your stead,
who can give out more of the heart to each other.
Sure , being a boyfriend surely give you this
excluse right to do this
and that, but sorry for me , i don't wish to use up this right , i
rather be
CONSIDERATE and give it to the future husband of this gal if you
really love HER!![/b]
For my side, my ex said she lost to me,and i'm really gave my
1st time to her,I wanna responsible and i love her. Yet she
initiate the break off. Just wanna be a singer.
