How Often Do You Meet Your Bf/Gf Each Week

Chrysalis_Guy SG

As above for all to discuss. [/b]

FireIce SG

on average…4~5 days

Chrysalis_Guy SG

Some believe that meeting everyday or often will make the relationship turn stale. However, they cant help it because they will miss him/her so much if didnt meet. Some don't mind meeting only on weekends but their relationship still strong as wkdays they spend talking on phone. Overall, what do you guys/gals think of the above?

audlenelee SG

i try not to meet too much… too much PT very siong to pocket ah…

FireIce SG

Originally posted by Chrysalis_Guy:

[b]Some believe that meeting everyday or often will make the relationship turn stale. However, they cant help it because they will miss him/her so much if didnt meet. Some don't mind meeting only on weekends but their relationship still strong as wkdays they spend talking on phone. Overall, what do you guys/gals think of the above?[/b]

there is no standard forumula to wat u said above.....

for us, it's due to our working hours (his working hours actually).....the usual stuff we do is eat dinner, watch tv, sleep......not much of movies or stroll the beach tt kinda thing.....
when we no meet, we communicate by fone calls, SMS, ICQ, IRC.....

absence makes the heart grow fonder.......applies to some.....

FireIce SG

i go ur house, u come my house.......bery economical Laughing

audlenelee SG

hehehe... usually is go my house... but go too much oso sian mah... so go out 4 dinner, etc... so... very bad for pocket...

FireIce SG

usually is me go his house....his mom will cook dinner......no damage to pocket Laughing

Estee SG

then sometimes can Pian Mee Fen somemore leh..... ahahahah

ahmike SG

I actually thinks this happen to me. you can read from my post...
"What should i do".

Average 1 month i see her for 15 days(of course not one time straight 15 days lah, but like every 3-4 days i go work then the 5th day i only see her). She boring not bcos i didnt bring her go to the place she wants or accompany her but dun have the "i miss u " feeling after some time.

So my advice is next time don't disturb girls when they want to go out with their friends. Or keep asking them where they go... hmmm this one abit tricky... got ask "they feel fan" ...dont ask "they feel you not think of their safety". haaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiihhhhhhhhhhhhhzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

kopiosatu SG

almost everyday if possible

times where i confirm won't meet is :-

1) when i'm working
2) i'm playing football
3) got outing with my friends

Chrysalis_Guy SG

haha x2

however, my current gf dun allow that cos both our parents still dun know abt our relationship (cos only stead for 3 mths and parents conservative type) and we cant go to each other houses as of now. so...hai...miting places are always outside lor....$ fly away...haha..how i wish that day will come when either me or her can go to each other's home.

FireIce SG

the most decent yu pian mi fen in the area lah.....lazy to go too far......hehehehehe

Estee SG

eheheeheh.... no chance to eat.... only eat b4 the fishball beehoon.... hahahaha...... acceptable to me loh.... ;P

[email protected]_arms SG

Must a boyfriend necessarily see his girlfriend that often?!

Would have thought once a week or once every 2 weeks enough.

kopiosatu SG

necessity will be decided by the couple.

everyone has different needs Cool

Urban Monkey SG

Up to you. No SOP for that.

elindra SG

Once a week or twice
Both of us are busy or tired

[email protected]_arms SG

I mean if you KEEP seing each other SO OFTEN, won’t the 2 of u get like bored with each other??? Like, i find girls i hardly see keep me attracted to them longer and we cherish whenever we see each other (however rarely), similarly girls miss me a lot and hardly see me, but it keeps the mystery/attraction goin “lor”

kopiosatu SG

like i said, that's the indivual's lifestyle and thinking. what applies to you might not apply to other people.

some want some mystery, some love each other so much they just want to see each other everyday for the rest of their lives, some don't even want to meet unless they feel sick of loneliness... we're human, everyone is different.