Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Seriously speaking, if such thing happens, you can
forget about the girl because since he is now your good friends
'underground' gf, let them be. What's
more important is that you should be extra caution when dealing
with this good friend of yours. I don't believe in deception like
this: if you can have the maturity and wisdom to move on
your life from then, I don't see why he cannot have the honesty to
tell you frankly.
[b]In face of a woman, friendship/s can render into
nothingness. Been there, done that.
Personal: CloUdiSm 2000 issue states: These people are
born in the world to kill me.
Cheers [/b]
I'll take that as much of a personal preference..?
The 'deception' from a good friend as you've put it... It's really
all a matter of how you see it as opposed to what might really be
in store for you in reality...
Some people who find that there's nothing to hide would just be as
OPEN as you've suggested to a friend... While others who might feel
that they're done a great wrong to a good friend.. Might just
choose to hide the truth, be cautious and not wanna hurt this
friend... It's all a matter of a person's way of handling the
situation... Though I can also agree with you that the chance of
this 'good friend' being a cunning (selfish?) person is
there...
All in all, love should not be forced... Just accept it as it is...
And if it's really a case of deception..? All that shall not be
should fall apart eventually... 
