Right or Wrong?U decide

last SG · 2004-08-09T19:06:37+00:00

hoho ,i totally agree wif Faye Valentine..but i would lik to add tat if tow persons tend to spend more and more time together..definitely lov wil blossom..no...

OpenGuy SG

isit right or wrong to go after a person who is attached but not married?

yunzhongzi SG

Rolling Eyes Neutral

Whistar SG

Is it right or wrong for her to to dump you the way she dumped her current bf for you now….....u decide

Troy437 SG

Very easy to decide.
You think it is right for ppl to go aft your gf when they know she is likely to marry you?
Tell ur true feelings & Dun be double standard.
If she can forsake her attached partner for you, she can forsake you for someone else later...

OpenGuy SG

But from the views of u all,would a guy/girl like another opposite gender if their relationship is stable?

Qitai SG

If it happens naturally without attempt to break them up, fine.

If attempts has been made to break them up, then you bastard.

Whistar SG

If he/she does that..........it does not always mean their relationship is not stable.......it could just mean that he/she is not taking their relationship seriously........very unfair to their current partner........

Patrik SG

Personally i tink its wrong..
Been in this situation quite a few times..
I dun wanna create problems for the 2 of them...
In their 2 pple world,there shouldn't be me inside at all..
Sad Sad Sad

BaByBoY SG

All`s fair in LOVE and WAR
Sometimes it`s the ultimate intensity of love that make us do things we`ll normally not do..
I`ll say this question have no real answers..
But i`ll not do what i do not want others to do to me.

However, nothing can stop LOVE from comin your way..
and when it comes embrace it graciously.

junk SG

OpenGuy SG

Neutral

Imperfect SG

There is no right or wrong in such matters… but just got to bear in mind that if s/he did leave her/is current b/gf for the better u, at least in her/is opinion, s/he may leave u when a even better one, in her/is opinion, appears and decide to woo her/im.

I-like-flings(m) SG

why not??? ~Just Do It~

if she is urs... she's urs.... if u are good.. u are good.... but if u are not worthy of her love.. then u are not.....other ppl just have to face the fact Cool Cool

Yunhaier SG

Its not about being 'wrong' to chase an attached girl - but the problem is can you ensure that you don't implicate problems into your beginning relationship with her? It truely depends on your situations and is difficult to comment.

You can chase, but how sure are you to succeed?

P.S: To people who hates guys going after attached girl: if she leaps across boat, it simply means she is NOT the one and it probably revealed her ultimate true self. No point. All is fair in love and war - if you can't substain your relationship, let them go. Idea

Cheers

the Bear SG

i'll say this:

battleship steel, even if you pound it enough, will break...

and if a couple is happy, just because of yourself, you go pound on it until it breaks?

did you love her in the first place?

or was it possession of her you wanted?

love is seeing the object of your affection happy, and being happy for her even when you are not the one bringing her joy...

Joshua1975 SG

right or wrong depend on your thinking, it the thinking make it so.

OpenGuy SG

if yr friend also say want to go after him/her when he/she know ya are troubled of this,would ya still consider him/her to be yr friend?

kaobeikaobu SG

lf your friend tells you that he/she likes someone you like, what would you feel or do?

OpenGuy SG

Not sure because have not encounter such problem yet

kaobeikaobu SG

Your friend has emotion as well. You can't control that.
Would you feel any loss losing such a friend over this? If you can answer that, then that will lead to your answer.