Does looks really matters to gals?

SibeiSuayKia SG

Got 1 guy i managed to know him for many years..
kept on complaining about his looks..say he not yandao etc etc

say he no gf coz he look ugly..

haiz wish u all could help him..sigh..
now he's taking bodybuilding to build up his image..

i think prolly is becuz of self esteem problems..

elindra SG

Definately self esteem la
I mean as long he don't look like the hunchback of notredame he shouldn't have a problem.

I thought some other threads say pretty girls go for ugly guys Laughing

Girls like guys with confidence la. If bodybuilding will build up his confidence so be it.

Of coz there is the gold digger kind who don't care how you look like and only at your pocket.

FireIce SG

i dun mind looks......seriously...
i dun think my bf is good-looking.......

i oso dun like beefcakes tt has bigger br3asts and deeper longkang than me Twisted Evil
fit and healthy will do.....no need to overdo

amuletgurl SG

Confused he cant be that ugly leh,ba,looks does not really matter lar
i honestly believe everyone is unique in their looks
like me ...ugly yet can get bf

<sk> SG

Its always much easier for girls to get a bf... but a guy its harder...

If a girl can't get a bf at ALL... boy is she REALLY... Neutral

amuletgurl SG

true true
anyways,good personalities n other qualities matter more than looks
and for guys,yeah,i agree wif elindra,confidence is important,only he himself can set his mind to however n watever he wants to think of himself
Good looks (not me lar) also have cons wat,they draw unwanted attention when they really (at times)dun like it,especially sexual advances

huiz SG

Actually we r all guilty of judging a person by how he/she looks, at least sub-consciously. hahaha…..even if u say dun mind, it may not be the case.

SnowFlag SG

Ya lor, we say don't mind, actually mind. Mr. Green

InnoHippo SG

ha ha .... how can dont mind .... have to see that face daily Wink

FireIce SG

off the lights, all the same lah Mr. Green

InnoHippo SG

see that face even in your dreams or nightmares Mr. Green

Eiizumi SG

Everything, inside and outside is important one way or the other.

Depends on anybody's perspective actually, so one has to adapt.

"Beauty is only superficially skin deep", yet it is normally "the first impression (face I mean)" that started anything.

It takes hard work to make yourself beautiful.

But it take wisdom and character to understand superficial beauty is transitory.

What lasts is your soul... Cool

Eiizumi SG

Women... Rolling Eyes

Women still judge by instinct... not logic...

A Beautiful Mind SG

I rely think its hypocritical to say looks dun matter... be it for guys or gals.

Ya i know of gals who say they go for character, looks dun matter etc etc... but nv will they date a guy they deemed ugly.

I hav a gd fren for many yrs, who always lament that he can't gt a gf cause of his looks... i honestly think its true.
Amongst my peers, its always the better lookin who gt attached first & even aft breakin up, they find another soon.

But there are always exceptions... as u see in the street, there are always beautiful gals with ugly guys & vice versa.
Ultimately, its ur inside that counts... but to go beyond the 1st step may prove so overwhelming for many.

SunRisE SG

Self-confidence, self-esteem, security and his egos that's what he's lacking..

Nobody is perfect.. So wat if he build up his body.. but face still won't change.. what's the point.. if the gals that he likes.. really lokk based on his face.. even though he has a good body.. the face stil cannot make it..

Is not physically that he needs to improve.. is the inner self of him! He needs to build up more confidence in himself.. Ask him to dare to look into the mirror and said to himself that he's handsome, good looking.. Smile and be proud.. if he can do that.. he will definitely have much more confidence in presenting himself anyway.. Is rather kind of rubbish that saying that one self is not as good looking as others.. Jus be cos they couldn;t get a gf..

True love isn;t like that.. if you are jus looking for someone jus to show and prove that even though i'm ugly.. i have gf.. so what about you? True love is not easy to come by.. To find someone who can really share with you.. Is hard too.. Wake him up and tell him.. God is fair.. he may not be good looking.. but he may have other talents that others don't have!

Peer encourgament does help too.. Boost his ego.. boost his faith.. his confidence.. his security..

Cheers.. Wink

SnowFlag SG

To be fair, not all singapore gals r like that.

Devil1976 SG

You forgot to mention CHESTHAIR? Laughing

I help you... CHESTHAIR is a BONUS. Mr. Green "

RaTtY81 SG

the yandaoness/chioness only last for a while…but ur inner beauty will last a lifetime.

elindra SG

Aiyo, why do you just have to pick on FI Mr. Green

Aiya but hard to say la, but the things I like opposite from FI

Like I prefer guys that is not so hairy but my bf so hairy..... Got lots of chest hair somemore Razz

So ultimately still back to the character............

SibeiSuayKia SG

eh den will u all gals accept a guy who is shorter then you but have confidence