pete98 SG I really enjoy talking to a particular girl at my workplace but I don’t feel any strong passion for her like the girl who previously rejected me. However I do really missed her whenever she is on MC but I don’t yearn for her presence like a lovestruck person. I like to around her and making her smile but It feels more like we are buddies whenever we chat and horseplay. She is pretty and likeable but there unlikely to be any relationship developing between us. I am really confused over my feelings over her.
the Bear SG be her friend.. who knows? love may blossom... if not, heck! you've got a great friend love sometimes come to those who do not look for it.. and is elusive to those who actively search it out..
pete98 SG I am already her friend I guess. Pity shes a malaysia and we are both being transfer to different department soon. Its rare to find a girl with whom I can talk to without turning into a red tomatoe. And its even rarer to find a lady click so well with me and be on frendly terms with me in less than a month(I am really shy around girls ). Hope the relationship lasted.
the Bear SG will she be posted to another country? if not, ask her out for drinks, a movie, to hang out.. stuff like that sometimes, there are no reasons necessary to meet a friend, especially someone you are comfortable and relaxed with
pete98 SG Shes staying in Malaysia so thats the headache part. Should you ask her to come here or should you go there? Either way its going to be too complicated just to have a causal meetup with her. Shes currently working in Singapore but she does express her hope to become a air stewardess in Malaysia airline. If thats the case its going to get a lot more messy to even remain in contact with her. But I do hope that she does succeed in her air stewardess dream.
the Bear SG that's good that you wish her the best and hope that her dreams come true it's hard but it's not overwhelming... uhh... where in malaysia? if just JB, can visit her often you know? well, i hope the best for the both of you.. friends or maybe even more
Yunhaier SG Mental frequency and Love is two different issue, although good mental frequency gives good vibes on relationship. In love astrology, harmonious aspects of Mercury contribute to good frequency and mental clicks. We often feel comfortable with a particular person. Let time discern if love is involved. Afterall, anything is possible on a good friendship basis - build that first and consider later. Cheers
dream_ing SG U can't lie to ur feelings, u obviously have a liking for her. Try to find out how she feels abt u. Hint to her or ask her close friends. Cos if u let her know ur feelings & she doesn't reciprocate, u may end up losing a gd friend.
^starrs^ SG ya friendships often blossom into love, let nature take its course. Dont let the distance between u hinder ur friendship with her or even ur feelings for her. If at one time u are strong and sure abt ur feelings and that u want to be more than just fren with her, u'll have to work harder. If u long for her deeply, u definitely wont mind the far distance and will go that extra mile to be with her. Believe that love conquers all. When u love each other, she's never far from u cos she was always on ur heart.
