freestyle SG after a few months in a relationship. they sort of get bored of it and hence they PRIORTISE their friends more than they priortise their bf ?
ahkico SG No... I got a friend... She is wif her bf for about 2yrs liao... N still her bf is her priority on top of her friends... See lah... Tis kind of thingy... Depends on whether the gal wants to make the commitment or not... Most gals r willin to do tat... But when they chose to priotise their friends first... Things may be goin wrong???
Magnus SG There will come to a point where comparisions are inevitable. Especially if she have guy friends. If u dun work on it, who would want to continue the r/s if hanging out with friends are more fun/better? This applies to both sexes, not specifically to girls.
DXuan SG Not when her friends are all guys. Like someone said, it's the commitment level and how much they love you back. My case was my ex chose to prioritise because she thinks I was holding her back but what I did not know was she was sleeping with 1-2 of them behind my back. And that's just wrong So if you feel something ominous is gonna happen, just bail. Don't wait 3years like me to find out Yes although there ought to be mutual respect, a guy SHOULD theoretically be the one pulling the strings and calling the shots here. Sorry ladies but that's what I think based on my own failure, it's in no way related to anyone else in particular Just my 2 cents worth
arburthen? SG Too sticky all the time not very healthy, very soon run out of things to say to each other. This way is good, you do yur thing she does hers.
mushigen SG If a girl is seriously in love with a bloke, she will give him priority in everything, time especially. If not, alarm bells should ring.
Yunhaier SG Are you sure it because she is bored with the relationship? And not her 'actual' behavior when dealing with relationship? P.S: There is a huge difference. Cheers
beige SG not really lahz... i got gal frens with their bf for almost 3 yrs or 1 yr liaoz and still their bfs is their no1 priority over others... can call tis 'nian' ba...
freestyle SG her friends are gal friends. however i still feel that as her bf i shld be priortised. but she know her frds longer than she know me.
gerrykoh SG If gal pals why u worry? Should let her meet up with them once in a while cos girls like to gossip & shop. U only worry if she is meeting with guy friends very often cos some guys will still make a move even though the girl is attached
elindra SG Surprise her now and then. Sometimes a girl rather spend more time with her friends because she finds the relationship is falling into a routine and getting boring. Find new things to do together, learn something new or go to new places. A holiday helps It takes 2 to clap for the level of commitment but sometimes, one party has to take the first step to spice up the relationship.
gerrykoh SG My friend has a plain looking close friend/best friend C who gets jealous when she spends too much time with her bf. She will complain that she is being neglected so my friend has to tell her bf she can only see him once a week
strawberry lush SG Really? hmm from my observation, seems like all girls worship their bf. They rather be with their guy than to go out with friends once they are attached. The frequency of meeting their guy is 5 times more than meeting anyone else.
elindra SG Err your friends bf are all really lucky then. From my side there are those who are very close to their bf but still have a good social life, and there are those who are double, even triple timing their bf/husband (more common phenomenal), but I have yet to see one who is so sticky to their partner. To what I see these days, I think less and less girls worship their bf. Usually its the other way around. Haha Just my own point of view
M©+square SG You're not far from truth. But good social life - where does the social circle come from? There have got to be certain source like Club spots or schools.
elindra SG Ex-classmates, ex-collegues, from clubbing, friends of ex-classmates, ex-collegues. None of us join any clubs. Sometimes from the internet.
