Have you ever wonder if you are a listener
or a speaker?
Communication goes by two ways - the one who felt the strong urge
to speak constantly without the empathy of his/her other partner
indirectly dominate the direction of the relationship. It would be
great if he/she is evolved and knows what's best for the greater
good of the relationship. Note: Its for the greater good, not for
personal know-best - how many have actual fallen for the
latter thinking that it was the best course of action? 
I hate it when people relatively older than me automatically shuts
down when it comes to issues of love. Supposedly they 'know' more
and unconsciously close the valve to listen - I listen to the words
and I know where the damaged roots came from, but the autocratic
speaker close listening ears and chose to impart, not to
accept.
"Don't let anyone look down on you because you are
young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in
love, in faith and in purity."
1 Timothy 4:12
Although I am not a christian, I loved this phrase. 
***
Been trying to haul people up the boat and save them
from emotional destruction and I hate being in situations where I
have to hold back my words because I need to practice Libra's
Harmony for the moment. I hate having to be in situations where I
don't want to be there, but I can't because I am the only one left.
When I strengthen others, other others words and behavior tear down
my reinforcement. Faith and willpower wears off... its ok - but the
fringing` problem is that my time is ticking, I can't always be
there. I am fearing because there is simply NONE that could
substitute my role in them.
The farking problem of being an Aunt Agony is when you know both
side so well, you wanna retreat and let karma and experience be
their guide instead. But can you chose to abandon your knowledge
and seal lips? Can you chose to watch misery, yet know
misery and not prevent misery?
A quick check of astrology and the current planetary movements
revealed a karmic period with certain sign.
Really... a real test of my aunt agony role.
Cheers
