Recently, my bf of 3 1/2 yrs broke up with me. He claimed that
he is tired that we are always quarreling. You see, we quarrel and
did not talked for 2 weeks.
After that when I called him, he told me he want to call it off and
wants to be left alone.
the reason for our quarrel was becoz I did not let him go out on a
particular nite. reason being that he has been out for 2
consecutive nites and I was afraid he was too tired. wrong move. he
got mad and quarrel with me.
anyway, it has been a week. i met him last week after he broke the
news to me. i was extremely out of control and miserable. i was
sick after he broke this news to me. i could not eat and could not
sleep and becoz of that i got bad gastrics and boy, felt like
dying. he told me we still could be friends..
he did sms me when he learnt that i did not eat. told me to take my
meals.
then yesterday he came to my place to take his clothes. he actually
did not want to talk but i told him better to talk thru once and
for all. i asked him for the real reason, he claimed no more
feelings.
i asked him if got 3rd party, he said no.
i jus bought a car and he is helping to finance, so i told him
maybe i want to sell the car, he told me to keep it until end of
the yr then decide again.
our joint acct, he said he is still using it, so will keep until
end of the year.
if he is really so firm to break up, when leave these open?
besides the credit card which he supp to me told me to keep it
first, if want to use then use if not then return him if i
want.
i really dun understand, tell me guys, what is he thinking? is he
confused?
would you shower a luxury gift to your gf 4 month before a breakup.
i am thinking, if he doesnt love me, why did he buy such an
expensive gift for me for my birthday????
