How do i ask/approach her??

X k SG · 2004-08-06T23:44:56+00:00

sia lahz u from NP sia... i juz graduated in May haha...

X k SG

Recently i noticed a girl that i kinda liked as in she attracted me lah(may be crush only) so thats why i wanna know more about her
ermm until now i only used some lousy excuses to talk to her like when she was reading a comic so i asked what she was reading Sad
I was wondering how do i approach her or ask her if i can be her friend(so i can get to know her more) ?

Embarassed

~Lyn~ SG

u had approached her!! by asking her wat comic she’s reading and stuff lidat.. u can take the chance to sit wif her and start wif discussing abt the comic and as both of u progress you’ll be having a nice chat. have to be a bit thick skin.. heehee… but if she dun feel comfortable (can tell from her body language) juz make an excuse and leave so she wont find u irritating. take time and do it slowly.. all the best!

X k SG

i didnt really approach her =( becos i only ask her what comic she read i didnt sit next to her and continue chat wif her i guess i too shy/hum ji le Crying or Very sad

sgboy2004 SG

get her hp number Very Happy

X k SG

doink but i am like a stranger to her sia how i get her hp number?? Embarassed

sgboy2004 SG

hey wat comics u reading...where u get har... u like comics... hey, next time we go to buy comics together... so how to contact u har, u hav a hp number?....

Mr. Green

X k SG

doink dont change subject leh lol anyway i read comics like

naruto
shao nian zu qiu meng(fantasia)
long lang zhuan(legend of dragon's son)
qi lin wang(hikaru no go)

how u approach stranger sia -_-???

Ah Ma SG

wow…..intro her to me. she can b my comic kaki

X k SG

how i intro sia she dont really know me although we met alot of times through this 2yrs+ in poly but only tok like few sentences not even sentences Crying or Very sad

BoA_fan SG

I don noe wat u will think but wat i am advising u to do is to be really thick skin and ask her out. Of course it will hurt if she rejects u but if u dont... Others guys will go after her n u will be left with nothing... not even with a chance to be thick skin anymore.

Trust me... i noe wat i am talking... left former gf juz to chase tis girl but i hesitated... Now she with my former classmate... wat to do now? Still very depressed tat i did not take action earlier... now dont u do the same thing as me K?

DXuan SG

wah so fast wanna steal people girl ah Razz

X k SG

Originally posted by BoA_fan:
I don noe wat u will think but wat i am advising u to do is to be really thick skin and ask her out. Of course it will hurt if she rejects u but if u dont... Others guys will go after her n u will be [b]left with nothing... not even with a chance to be thick skin anymore.

Trust me... i noe wat i am talking... left former gf juz to chase tis girl but i hesitated... Now she with my former classmate... wat to do now? Still very depressed tat i did not take action earlier... now dont u do the same thing as me K?[/b]

zzz i think i have to be the past me then cos last time i quite thick skin one hahaha during sec schools Twisted Evil

~Lyn~ SG

Actually this kind of things boils down to whether u are able to be thick skin anot.. but since u like very shy how abt trying other means? if she's kinda related to (eg. ur fren's fren's fren's fren) or something den u can ask for favours to noe her better. better still ask them to intro u to her.. or see wat activities she join den u try to join also if can.. lidat got excuse to noe her mah..

gerrykoh SG

Next time u see her, just say 'hi', then say u like the comics she is reading & ask whether can borrow. Intro yourself. Don't be shy. Since u are in the same poly, u are already a familiar face. Talk abt. comics, say u can lend her some of yours. Offer to meet up so can pass to her Wink

the Bear SG

dutch courage?

just kidding...

go ask her about comics Wink

parn SG

Walk up to her and say hello and hi and introduce your name to her and ask her for her name. Then the rest you need is the ability to talk cock. Not difficult to do so unless you already know everything about her, but come again...do you? So you shouldn't have any problem at all now.

gerrykoh SG

Another thing- Be confident, don’t hesitate or appear nervous. Treat it like approaching strangers to buy a flag or sell them something. Not as scary as u think.

tetsumi SG

haha... u guys make it sound very easy...
gather ur courage n approach the ger...
it's actually very tough for newbies like me lehz...
- recalls poly days -
those gers in my course, i wanna go noe them but i oso dun dare
maybe is my upbringing ba... i'm not too comfortable wif asking pple for their numbers
then when the ger i'm interested in she initiated exchanging numbers,
i will be damn damn damn happy... over the moon Laughing
haha.. i sound like kid... but that's juz the way i am...
so if i like a ger, i oso wont tell her 1... Sad
juz like wat zhou jie lun sings, "zhi shi kai bu liao kou rang ta chi dao"

any1 same case as me?
LoL! a bit sad case.. better dun be like me...

Devil1976 SG

Mmm...

X k SG

same case -_-''
but tml which is friday i am going to approach her and make the 1st step of my own revolution Twisted Evil