icycold,
i m in the same boat as u.
after 3 1/2 years of our relationship, my bf told me that he wants
to be left alone.
u see, we quarrel 2 weeks ago and we did not call each other at
all!
i know everyone says we are so strange.
i plucked up my courage to call him last week and he told me that
he doesnt want to talk to me anymore. he feels that we are not
behaving like a couple.
sigh.
so we met up and talked, i asked him what exactly is he unhappy
about? anything that i can change or compromise. he says that he is
very happy alone now. he can do watever he wants and doesnot have
to report to me.
i asked him if there is a 3rd party, he says no. i asked him if he
still has feelings for me, he says yes.
so i m not sure wat is the problem. he seems quite firm about his
decision.
his buddy told me that he is very hurt that i did not call him
because he tot that i did not care about him anymore! so
untrue!
now he does not want to take my calls and just want to be left
alone.
my freinds tell me to leave him alone, after he continue going out
for awhile, then he will definetely think about me again...i hope
it is true!
i have been sick and is on mc for these 2 days, he sms me yesterday
and heard from my friend that i have not been eating, so he told me
to have my meals...(i dun want to read too much into it)
i m feeling reallly miserable and so helpless. should i just leave
him alone?
i really dun know. to me, breaking up is never a solution, it is
just an easy way out.
