Does liking someone make u find lonely

Laguna83 SG

I have noe a gal during IA and take a liking to her, I often chat with her on icq/msn and I find that the more I chat with her the more I miss her and the more I want to tok to her. Sometime when I think of her make me feel so lonely, but when I have friends company I don't feel this way, but I still miss her. The thing is she had a bf already so I did not tell her how i feel, but I really think of asking her out for a meal or movie. I am so confuse now Sad

happypiglet SG

haha follow wat ur signature say lor...laugh n grow fat...hahahaha.....no la....juz do wat u think is rite.....eg. as wat u said...ask her out juz for a meal or sth like tt...but if she reject then dun force her lor...at least u both can still b cyber frens mahz...rite? Wink

sgboy2004 SG

hope tat person u chatting with is not ah ma in disguise.... Laughing

well, she has bf liao...then keep a distance lor, but still can be friends mah

bahgae27 SG

It depends on how honourable u are, if u confess outright, it might hurt both of

u, plus u may feel a tinge of guilt.

or u can use the 'wait and see' and wait for some thing to happen to them, which may be a long time.

its best to remain contact while u continue to expand ur social circle, maybe by knowing her friends?

just my views..

motdedog SG

Crush. Just a passing infatuation, as i see it.. it'll pass soon..

Theory: single, hoping to find significant other to fill the 'gap' in your heart.

Therefore, as you meet girls with 'eligible' attributes, you become smitten and become lovestruck..

I'm not saying that meeting someone in that way is bad, but that may be why you're missing her and such. Since she's attached, you can still link up as buddies or sth..

May luck be with you.

Laguna83 SG

I think u speak my heart, hopefully I can find someone similar and single Very Happy

thanks to all ppl ur advise guess I juz need some support

Yunhaier SG

Note that there was already a liking before you spoke to her online.

To chat with her online signify a situation in reality - so near, yet so far.

She is attached and probably has her own life.

You miss her terribly because she seemed within reach, but no matter how you attempt at this stage, it seeme furtile and you didn't know how to go about reaching it.

P.S: Learn to walk off gradually. It will do you better in the long run.

Cheers

Devil1976 SG

Learn to CHERISH a FRIEND...