sgboy2004 SG The guy is 36, my friend. The girl is 23. Guy likes girl. Girl seems to be making use of guy in terms of company and money. Guy ask girl for a deeper relationship. Girl says her mother cannot accept her having a 13-year older bf. What guy should do??
ahkico SG Most prob the gal is really not interested n is jus givin an excuse not to go in depper wif the guy... N by puttin the blame on her mother, she is excuseable, coz isn her fault... n she still could continue to mak use of the guy... Tell the gal, either we go in for a deeper relationship or it is over... Age doesn't really have a prob... Esp if the guy is the older one... Least more acceptable than if the gal is the older one... Jie di lian...
I-like-flings(m) SG screw that gal lor.. make fren preg lor.. then she will beg ur fren to marry her lor
parn SG Girl is still not ready to break free from her mother. Girl is close to her mother and is an obedient girl. Girl love her mother more than any one else in her family. Guy should be mature enough and understand her situation, only then Girl will not felt stress when being with Guy. Does Girl like/love Guy? If Girl like/love Guy, then Guy should be gracious and should not pressure/demand Girl in any way during the relationship. Girl will find a way and all she needs is a lot of understanding and patience and care and love from Guy. If Guy suspects Girl is making use of him, then Guy should discontinue the relationship with Girl. True/Real love is never associate with money as true/real love can never be bought. It must be earned.
Mandark SG She is either playing games with the guy or her mother has a hold of her and that's never good for a relationship since she's probably telling her "you don't need him.", etc. But I could be wrong.
mahai102 SG ask her to dig money frm sgboy, then can transfer her 'love' & 'attention' to sgboy...but then that means sgboy must have fat wallet hor...if not, after playing him for one day, sure wallet punctured already, look like flat tyre only...
