in a relationship, there are two parties.
u, being one of the 2 parties, only have ONE duty, which is to love
the other half whole heartedly. the other half, only has ONE duty
as well, which is to love you whole heartedly. in this way, the
relationship can be balanced and stress-free..
but often, people end up doing double jobs. what do i mean by that?
it simply means that besides doing the duty of loving the other
half, you worry if the other half is doing his/her part of loving
you anot. this causes stress and ultimately insecurity and
jealousy.
so, think simple. jus love each other! 
