Technology was their match-maker. In college days, she already
noticed him because he once said that his hamster died and he
teared to mourn it. She felt he was so full of luv, so caring, even
towards a small little animal. She was touched, she consoled him. 2
years later, she was studyin overseas, he was in ns. Again they
communicated thru technology every single night.
Perhaps it was the inital loneliness in a foreign country that made
her come online every night. But he was online too, to company her,
play games with her, chat with her, and to make her happy. Soon,
their companionship and teasing grew into thinkin more and more
about each other, missing each other. They got together, a long
distance rlnship and spending a month physically together every 6
mths.
After ns, he was busy with his studies but he still kept his
promise of companying and chatting with her every night. When she
went back to sg during her hols, they went out together almost evry
day.
He was not rich, his mum is puttin all her hopes on him for a
better future, so he has to do well in his studies. She just want
to be with him. She pays for him most of the time when they are out
but she doesnt mind. $$$ is secondary to her. He just wants her to
be happy.
Like every household has its own rules, every relationship has its
own problems. She wanted him to come visit her overseas because she
is graduating and going home. HE said he will try to work to raise
the $ for airtix. She thought he wasnt interested in coming because
he was not enthusiastic in finding a job. He wanted to work only if
his friend was working with him, and said that he couldnt find a
job at all in a period of 5-6 weeks. She was mad at him for quite
awhile.
On seperate occasion, HE said that his circle of friends are
strinking because he spents most of his awaken time with her.
She used to throw her tantrum on him.
She said his driving skills sucks, draggin the gear, lousy clutch
control. He just kept quiet, did not want to argue with her.
She said he was always late on dates. He said the bus was crowded
and the mrt she took was always punctual.
She said all other bfs go to gfs house to pick them up before goin
out and bfs always call their gfs at home. He said the other bfs
are too free, and still doesnt call her unless necessary.
Yet he despite being cool, calm, logical, practical he showed her
what was love about. He saved up to bring her to a posh restaurant
for their 1st V-day. He surprised her with a parcel on her b-day
when she's overseas. He bought toys from a blind man and gave them
to her. He cancelled some of his soccer games and rejected his
buddies to be with her. She was the 1st gal he bought home to let
his mum see. Whenever she threw tantrums, he let her let off, wait
for her too cool down and explained logically to her. He just
wanted her to be happy.
Now, they are offically not together. He said that he would not
have enough time for her everyday. She said it was better because
there was no commitment and he should not feel guilty of not
spending time with her.
She somehow is still waitin for him to be online to chat with him
almost every nite. She tries her best to be happy, because she
knows that what he always wanted her to be.
She thought about being his wife but he said he wasnt sure if he
could live with her tantrums.
She said, 'the longest distance in the world is not when u'r beside
me but dun know that i luv u. Its when both still luv each other
but cant be 2gether..somehow...'
He said 'Sometimes u have to give up what u want the most.'
What do you think about this situation? Is there a possiblity that
down the road they will be together again? Should she wait for
him?What wil the future be?
