Sex & Relationship

Vampiress SG

Everytime we meet up, we end up having sex.
It's becoming a routine-like lifestyle.
We have been together for four years.
I love him alot.
I am confused and I do not know what to type now actually...
Is too much sex no good? I think it makes me all the more confused and insecure...
I don't want to have a relationship based purely on sex alone.
What do I do now?? Sad

M©+square SG

Seriously, where are the both of you in the relationship scale?

Troy437 SG

Dun stay at the pl where u end up having sex. If he insist, aft sex say his sperm is getting lesser and thinner. Sure worried n stop one... Twisted Evil

Vampiress SG

Sad sometimes we can even do it outdoors because he needs it...
Is he addicted?? Sad
Or is his behavior normal Question
of cause I do enjoy doing it with him but I want a healthy balanced relationship....
Maybe I should just start rejecting his sexual advances in future.. Crying or Very sad
thk for replying Exclamation

Van Ahseng SG

toy, sperm will use fineesh one? me masterbed everyday oso no use finish. me one day masterbed seven times. me n ah hwa do it recently but me still very powderful. of cos me no more masterbed seven times a day cos at night we do it. me do six times now a days.

M©+square SG

Does he express long term relationship or any affection for you?

Van Ahseng SG

sorely me mean me masterbed 6 times a day.

Vampiress SG

yes, he dotes on me... and gives in to me but sometimes people say guys do this to get into your panties Confused
Or maybe his sex drive is very high Question ... Neutral

blowfish SG

mm... i also always get naughty and wan sex with my gf everytime we went out. (meet only on weekend due to work).
But i love her very much not because of sex.

Well, u mentioned do outdoors.... can elaborate more? where? how?

Dj_Shadow SG

Well, if he really need sex so much, then he might be juz fooling around with u... As u can see, relationship is not solely based on sex... It is based on ur feeling for the other party... Try to minimize the time u do it with him... Coz too much is bad for ur health... Wink

Dj_Shadow SG

Shocked
U so fit ah?? masterbed so much still damn ***king strong... Laughing

Dj_Shadow SG

If u do it 6 times a day with ah hwa, confirm u both die sia... Laughing

Nelstar SG

Sex = wearing socks. You change when you feel it's smelly.

I hope you get what I mean.

Magnus SG

V, 4 years is long time..
why don't u test him out by hinting marriage? to get it done by end of the year? And see his response..

Vampiress SG

We are too young to get married though he did mention before that he wants me to be his future wife but you know.. guys can be such sweet talkers at times Confused

Vampiress SG

say straight in his face about marriage or Question

Imperfect SG

try not to give in to him lor... and be firm on your stand... if he really loves u he will respect your decision... u can talk to him abt how u feel also... at least let him know... if he wants to dump u coz he cannot have sex with u then dump him, coz eventually he will be sick and run... it will still happen... no point giving in to him no matter how much u love him... u can place your love in someone else that's more worthy of u...

Good Luck

DevilAngel77 SG

x2!
if his love for you is going to be like sex everytime n cannot respect ur decision, it is not true love for you... if he care for you, he will care how you feel...let him know.. see wats his response...

theSquelch SG

What's wrong with sex in a relationship if both of you enjoy it?

You don't know what you want. Maybe you should sort that out before anything else.

aivlis SG

Talking from a girl’s perspective, a lot of times, deep down inside, u do know if the guy truly loves u for who u r or if he is only with u for what u give him. Only u know it urself cos u r in the situation. It’s juz whether u want to face up to reality and let him go, if he juz wants u for sex. But if u feel that he truly loves u, don’t doubt him.