Originally posted by Yunhaier:
You are wrong - sex don't move up the ladder from
causal to good to great. It differs from session to session.
Let me explain a little:
Causal sex is also known as Maintenance Sex - used by a couple to
ease their sexual urge. Usually anywhere less than 20 minutes and
has low emotional value. Also known as quickie, quick fark,
etc.
Good sex is usually a stage where sex is decent. This level has
decent emotional value and everything else. From beginning of
foreplay to end of session is reasonably taken care and noted of.
Usually half an hour and more.
Great sex is a level higher than Good sex. All the enjoyment and
everything else stays, but the environment and everything else make
sex a much better experience. Say both parties travelled overseas,
during Valentine's day, etc.
What else to keep relationship together? Sex cannot use to hold
relationship together - [b]Any relationship depended on sex will
fail - without fundamental basis emotional connection with
each other and love - sex has little power.
Cheers [/b]
very good observation. agree with u, except the last point. "sex
has little power". sorry, sex is very powerful. can bring people
who are not meant to be together, in the same bed. or people who do
not fit at all, no common topics, but can be one in bed.
sex is very powerful. and u constantly need it, just like u need to
eat. happy bonking.
