To all the singles,
This would be very helpful when you need to make a decision of your
future partner .....
For those married, Just need to follow one rule ~ love the perosn
you married whether your partner was by chance or by choice
When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place
at the right time, that's chance. When you meet someone you're
attracted to, that's not a choice. That's chance. Being caught up
in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because
of this) is not a choice. That's also a chance. The difference is
what happens afterwards.
When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing
attraction to the next level? That's when all sanity goes back, you
sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a
concrete relationship or just a fling.
If you decide to love a person, even with his/her faults, that's
not a chance. That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice.
Even if you know there are many people out there who are more
attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide
to love your mate just the same, that's choice.
Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true
love that lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I
believe is so true about this: "Fate brings you together, but it's
still up to you to make it happen."
I do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone
made for you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're
going to do something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates
by chance, but loving and staying with our soul mate is still a
choice we have to make.We came to the world not by finding someone
perfect to love ...BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person
perfectly!
