need more time?

thoreldan SG

when a girl says she need more time to get into a relationship, is it a good sign or is it gonecase?

Yunhaier SG

Truely depends on:

I) situations

II) Events leading to you chase

III) Her personaity

IV) Her attitude towards love.

Cheers

Patrik SG

Hard to say...
In my cases,all ended up in smoke..
Sad Sad Sad

shifeng SG

perhaps u shd wait? u shd know whether does she really mean it by giving her more time? are u patience enuff to wait?

i understand that its not easy... for me, i waited.. for 2 years... and finally she agree to be with me... shes my first gf, and i m her first bf... felt so happy, luckily i really gave her time and waited... but the process is really very tong ku...

so its up for u to judge...

gerrykoh SG

Is she very young? Maybe she is just being cautious cos some guys wants to go steady immediately. Let her get to know u better & have patience or you will scare her away.

Roulette SG

It really depends.

I'll say 60-40.

60 as in gone case.

Rad SG

I’d say cannot make it already…but remind you that there’s always hope.

FireIce SG

she is saying......now is not the time......perhaps in future......

there is a hope lah........slim hope though.....

jaimeyeo SG

gone case. unless u already go all the way. if not, forget it.

thoreldan SG

what she said is that she needs more time in order to break up with her current b/f to be with me.....i am the bad bad third party Crying or Very sad

Rad SG

Wow…wah…dunnoe what to sae…I also like one girl but she got bf already…so I siam I not the kind to be 3rd party…she seems happy with the guy and I don’t think I got chance haha

SunRisE SG

it depends on individual.. and the situation when she reply you that.. Wink

theSquelch SG

speed things up - sabotage her relationship Twisted Evil

parn SG

Oh..okie...so i see that you are breaking up other people's relationship and you are in agony...although not complete agony, but you are in fact seeking help over here? Rolling Eyes

Go and die lah. Evil or Very Mad

I wish that you will kanna the same thing as her bf right now in the future. Cos she can dump her current bf for you, she can also dump you in the future...for ME. Mr. Green

You really lacks of morals or your parents never teach you?

FireIce SG

fwah!!!
so it's a heng dao duo ai situation.........

but i guess she is doing right.....at least no one leg step 2 boats......

u oso mus think leh.....if in future she found another guy she likes.....then she will break up with u to be with him.......
wat goes ard comes ard hor......

meanwhile, u dun try to poison the bf ok!

Devil1976 SG

Cool

Devil1976 SG

Are you in a hurry? Don't be too quick to jumping into a conclusion... Sometimes it doesn't pay off... Cool

parn SG

I just want to introduce that bit-cha to my container of bangalas. Twisted Evil

Devil1976 SG

You don't even know the situation between the girl and her current bf? Some things ain't so clearly written in black and white... Rolling Eyes

parn SG

Devil1976, thoreldan admitted being the bad bad third party. So what is your call? Rolling Eyes

The girl is going to break up with her current bf to be with thoreldan, so should I see her as a nice goody ger who might be victimised by her bastardly bf and thoreldan is her knight in shinning armour?

If any ger does that to you while she is still your gf, would you still defend for her? Rolling Eyes

Would very much like to know the reasons behind your compassion for this ger.