Originally posted by GrimR:
Recently got this fren of mine, he's like...weird.We or rather he
misunderstood me becos of one sms.Sounds kindda
dumb i know. He ask me a ques then my reply was like "I told you
what, I'm not going." Even though I din mean it in such a arrogant
tone, apparently he thought it
was.
Then slowly, he said i got attitude
problem and goes on to open me up like a surgeon and
tell me all my bad points.Then I'm
like controlling my anger.After all I've known him for so long,
better to let the things slide right?
Before that he intro me to this guy.He quite nice lah cos he will
treat us to a meal whenever we meet up.I think my fren has a good
impression of him.Then he sms
something like "pple treat you, dunno how to be thankful and
appreaciate is it?" when I read it, I buay tahan then come here
post...
This isn't the first time he's like this.I mean, wtf is his problem
man?I'm not even saying anything and you are like trying to pick a
fight or something?Btw he SHOULD be reading this, cos he comes here
sometimes.
***End of explanation*** Please offer your opinions thanks.
The usual response over another person is to 'guide' them
without trying to condemn or correct them.
Everyone dislike making enemies especially to long time
friends.
When a person is being picky over the other, it is not usual to
think that he/she has expectations over the other party.
Possibly,
He likes her.
He couldn't stand her because there are certain changes in
lifestyle.
He developed a critical/judgemental habit.
Self - Righteousness
By i don't know the history...so it's hard to say which one.
I only know this friend of GrimR expecting her to become someone of
his expectation.
