Do i still wait?

JunMisugi41 SG · 2004-05-30T11:40:30+00:00

Do you want to wait? There's only 2 possibilities: 1) She will come back to you eventually 2) She won't come back If the answer is 1, congrats to you. If th...

JunMisugi41 SG

My gf told me our relationship is over and she would never love me like she did again.. I told her i’ll wait regardless how long but she told me it will be of no use and we just wont be the same again.. Do i still wait?

skeujin SG

u can wait but it will nvr come back….

red_tide24 SG

bro.. time to move on..

on tenterhooks SG

if you think she said it on an impulse, then wait.

if you think she said it after thorough consideration, you wait also no use.

BaByBoY SG

she may or may not mean wat she said..
but i should say u move on...
true love don need to be waited..
it`ll pop by on u when u least expected..
and when it comes.. no force in the world can stop it from comin.. that`s the power of love,....

sillyme SG

it’s either you do something about it or not do something about it. there’s no wait.

Imperfect SG

maybe u would like to find out why...
then u will know what to do next... definitely it will not be waiting...

gerrykoh SG

If she has no feelings for u, then no point waiting. U can try & rekindle the relationship but if she found someone new, then u have to move on. Don’t dwell on the past, start socialising, who knows u might find someone who will appreciate u.

zeth_april SG

wait for awhile and see how..
if u feel there'll be no outcome.. den move on bah~

WrX_STi SG

move on dude... since she say love had died between u too.. so y bother to wait..

move on.. enjoy singlehood den slowly pick up ur pieces and find another gf...

the_don SG

find out why if she has not given an reasonable answer.

to wait or not is your choice... but if you are doing this waiting thing just for yourself (that is u feel that she comes back if u wait, u think true love is u wait, etc) then don't.... true love is when u think for the other person and does what makes him/her happiest and wat is best for him/her.

jolin80 SG

ask her why gind the reason behind
but if u really loves her prove to her that u really love so much

~ little child ~ SG

haha..wat a joke. i'm soli

nv nv nv believe tat 1 ppl cant live wifout another ppl..altot songs always "cant live wothout u"..nv nv nv believe tat
it's nt tat i'm nt believe in love.i do believe in love..but.. i aso believe tat time is moving on. time will nv wait for a person..
u r nt e onli guy and ur gal is nt e onli gal in tis world..do believe tat ur love is over..means will nv come back.mayb it may cum back once..but it's nt e same anymore.nt e same again!!!
be brave 2 face ur new world!!!

Me0w Me0w SG

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WuGuiDan SG

I just suddenly thought of writing this out, it's also how i feeling right now :

Wait or Not? How does your heart feels? I feel, your heart has quite a clear path for you.

To me, you don't tell yourself to wait. Don't force yourself to wait. Does it bring you happiness to force yourself to wait?
If your heart can't accept any other person than the one you love, so be it. Is that call "wait"?

I feel : You are not waiting, you are following your heart.

Maybe one day, when your heart lets another person in. When that time comes, do you still give in 100% of your heart to the person that is already inside your heart? I'm not saying you forget that person...

Follow your heart when it comes to matters of the heart... Forcing does not give happiness... Even if in the future, you are alone, you also won't blame anyone because you know it's not you yourself forcing yourself to wait, it's "you" feel to "wait"...

I don't know you get what i mean or not...

I'm still learning...

Wind SG

Originally posted by WuGuiDan:
I just suddenly thought of writing this out, it's also how i feeling right now :

Wait or Not? How does your heart feels? I feel, your heart has quite a clear path for you.

To me, you [b]don't tell yourself to wait. Don't force yourself to wait. Does it bring you happiness to force yourself to wait?
If your heart can't accept any other person than the one you love, so be it. Is that call "wait"?

I feel : You are not waiting, you are following your heart.

Maybe one day, when your heart lets another person in. When that time comes, do you still give in 100% of your heart to the person that is already inside your heart? I'm not saying you forget that person...

Follow your heart when it comes to matters of the heart... Forcing does not give happiness... Even if in the future, you are alone, you also won't blame anyone because you know it's not you yourself forcing yourself to wait, it's "you" feel to "wait"...

I don't know you get what i mean or not...

I'm still learning...
[/b]

Cool

Wind SG

Don't wait. Try and chase her all over again. Put in your one last effort. Don't expect any return, for you are doing all these just because you are giving yourself, your heart an answer. For at least, you are doing and showing something.

If everything is to no avail, it's time for you to get used to a new life without her. Everything is back to the same old thing, time.

Good luck my friend.

boy in blues SG

wait. but look around at the same time. concurrent action, man

Joshua1975 SG

Neutral In reality the only way a relationship will last if you see your relationship as a place that you go and give and not a place you go to take.[/quote]if you had being giving why not give it to her one more time, keep a part of her in the heart and let her go, she may come back but hey time dun wait for anyone. move on. we are meeting ppl everyday and the right one may come next. if she is back than it just too bad.

Friends are family members where we can choose to have or not to.
Love yourself than you can love someone.

parn SG

Haiz...do not wait, what are you hoping to achieve by waiting? Do you really think she will come back to you again?

Okie...that was pretty depressing to know. Well, you can always go after her again. All you need is remember what caused your relationship to fail in the first place and make sure you bloody change yourself so that you don't repeat those mistakes again. If you really love her, why not love her all over again? This time it will be different....much more difficult for her to accept you again. But if you managed to win her heart this time around, please do treasure her and don't make her sad again.

Well, usually guys don't go after the same girl again...dunno why also. But it doesn't means you cannot do it lah. If you really love her, inspire us by making the impossible possible. Can do it or not? If cannot, then move on lah. Next! Twisted Evil