wHat wiLL u dO?

parn SG

In the middle of the night? Cry lor...cry until you are tired then go back to koon. Tomorrow then settle this with him.

There is this news last week I think...this taiwanese gal climbed out of the flat and threatened to jump off it unless her bf sign the wedding papers and marry her. In the end, her bf signed the wedding papers in front of her and married her. But nobody in sg will try this kind of stunt right? Laughing

Okie...if you still love him, then of course make up with him and hopefully live happily ever after. If you don't love him anymore, then go for abortion and remember to keep your dead fetus in a bottle jar and deliver it personally to her parents. Hopefully can give one of them a good scare and plenty of nightmares ahead. Twisted Evil

Good huh? Laughing

boariggy SG

abortion is cruel.

[L]inG_eR SG

i agree. baby got the rights, if the parents are in the wrong, why muz put the baby to the dead end Confused

[L]inG_eR SG

same thinking as me! Smile

[L]inG_eR SG

good 1 Mr. Green

X k SG

last time when i was in sec my form tutor told me theres a special monastery or something that helps u raise your child if u still studying and then after u study finish liao will bring the child back to u or something like that(not sure about the exact details)

bo liao SG

Kekekekek...there is a C_boliao also ah..
I respect wat he say,very true... But with all due respect, i really respect those single mothersas i hv a chio bu god sis who is also a single mother,working in Kabuki....in case some dun know where kabuki is, its in crown prince hotel...really respect, work for the child....too bad she 3 yrs older den me & her heart already numb liao, if not, i 100% take her as wife.... Sad Embarassed

From the way u post,ling_er,mayb i tink..sorry 1st,if its really happening to you, hv a clear mind, think wat u wan to do 1st, keep or abort?ask yourself...
u wan the child or u wan ur future...do u hv the courage to carry the burden in time to come for ur child, can u tahan the views from ur relatives....if everything can,u love ur child inside you, den born it.

If cannot, den abort it lor...really no choice....i ever gone through tis thing wid my 5 yr ex...

All i can say is,as i posted in my eariler post,if baby is bigger, is not aborted in operation theather ,is put pill into ur there den baby come out on the bed u lying on,it will be very sad if u see te BB come out but dead...the feeling is really KNN.(u also must be mentally prepared)baby is so cute but dead,<<>>....so as wat i'm saying, if it is happening to u, ur bf really farking leaving you but u love him yet he do tis type of thing to you, ask him sit beside you throughout the whole proceder(provided ur baby is more den 3+ mths lah)let ur bf see, he will remember u & his dead baby for life,trust me, very hard to 4get it.Unless he no heart at all...

mayb if after he see liao, his heart melt, den he may tresure u back....

Sorry to say so much if u really nothing to do den start tis topic but i dun think so,from my point of view or i too sensitive.....but anyway....
Remember, think b4 u do anything,its a life u know. dun lik me choose a wrong option, which i regreted till today....

springtime SG

Fully agree ! Too many implications and too many uncertainty. If you think of bringing the child into the world, you must also consider if you can fully provide for the child and bring the child up well. Dun hate yourself or the child in the future and bring up a dysfunctional family.

Yes there is adoption but when you have made the decision to bring that kid into the world, your first maternal instinct when you see the newborn after all the labour pain etc is to KEEP the BABY and refuse adoption. Giving away a baby isn't as easy as just giving away a favourite toy. So in the midst of uncertainty and being financially unstable etc, you will still wanna keep the baby even though you are not able to provide for him or her.

Neverthelss, i must add, those teenage girls who bring the baby to term and managed to give him/her up for adoption have my respect. However, I dun think it's cruel or self fish to go through an abortion, it takes alot of courage and emotional pain to go through with it, especially when you are going through it alone.

the.raven SG

tell him to take up the responsibility, if he refuse, then ask your girlfriends all come one day ambush him and beat him up, then undress him and tie him up, take nude photos of him and black mail him.

the.raven SG

hahaha later the orphan come back as some kung fu master

Devil1976 SG

Rolling Eyes

itroubled SG

firstly, i'll let him abt it and find out if he's taking his responsibility. If not, i would advise for abortion. Thou i can't agree more that it's unfair to the child and harmful effect done to her body. Think about the possibilities that she will be able to get into another true relationship carrying that child around. Be sensible. Face the reality. Made a mistake, do not let that mistake drag her for life. correct it then move on.
The final decision to make depends on her circumstances that she's in.
last word; do not make the same mistake again.

[ r 0 y s t 0 n ] SG

X2.. Wink

[ r 0 y s t 0 n ] SG

Orphanage? It would also be cruel to da child to abandon him to let other ppl look after right? Afterall babies needs motherly care..

DevilAngel77 SG

it differs on case to case basis..
i would say abortion is a last resort...
cos of all the high risk involved..
even the mother is risking her chance of ever having another child..
or even risking her life doing an abortion...

1) have a good talk wif him to talk things out..
2) if things dun work out.. family support is ur next option.. see wat ur family says...
3) you have to judge on ur case and see if you are able to suport the child as a single parent.. (best to have ur family support on this)
4) give child up for adoption (have to bear the pain of seperation at birth, better dun see ur child at all if u choose this option)
5) abortion. please find a reputable clinic/hospital to do this.. dun risk ur own life...

bo liao SG

Go KK ba...can use medisafe to pay, u no need to come out a single cent of cash.few hundred only.take class b2 ba...got 6 bed tat 1.if u wan higher class, hv to deposit $500 1st, can take back when u leave hospital, whole process take max 4 days....
As abortion is last resort as said by many others.try to let him know,see his reaction,see wat he do,....but jus be mental prepared if u choose the last resort...cos physically pain still can endure, its te image or process if u see tat u cannot delete from ur brain....

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