Hmm...so i guess guyz are juz able to conceal their emotions
better than girls, but doesn't mean that they are less hurt,
right??
Blame it on the society, or the way they are brought them, that
guyz haf to try put on a strong front, esp at times when they feel
vulnerable. It's not being hypocrite, it's juz the way man have
learnt as they grow up. Something which i still find it hard to
understand, but I juz haf to accept it. Maybe that's how man are
supposed to be, i.e. stronger than woman, physically, mentally,
emotionally?!
Whatever it is, doesn't matter which gender u r, esp if u r the one
dumping a person, do try to show a little bit of compassion even if
u no longer love the person. Try to understand that u may haf
stopped loving the person long time ago, so it was easier for u to
let go of the relationship, but it's not so easy on the person
being dumped. Instead of ignoring the person completely, thinking
that it will be easier on the person to forget abt u, haf a good
talk and try to make the person understand that it is useless to
carry on the relationship if one party stopped feeling the sparks.
Takes two hands to clap. both parties haf to be happy, for a
relationship to work. But NEVER, cut ties off completely and
suddenly, and NEVER NEVER say "stay as frens", if back in ur mind,
u don't intend to.
Don't say things which u don't mean it, juz to make the person
happy for that moment. cos if the person does find out that u had
lied, she/he will hate u for a longer period of time than she was
happy. The world is small, esp in Spore, u will meet her one day,
somewhere, some place. Not a nice sight, if she still can't forgive
u for wat u did to her.
P/S. if my cooking was the problem, then...NEVER NEVER NEVER dump a
person cos he/she can't cook. Enrol her in cooking classes
instead....... Juz kidding. Cold sat morning makes me happy.
