Does a girl need to play hard to get?

icyprincess SG

Does a girl need to play hard to get to make the guy remains attracted to her? See, I am trying to give B a chance but I dunno why, I can sense that he is kinda 'colder' towards me now...Maybe it is becos we are both busy with exams and stuff, but the truth is I need someone even more during this time. Maybe I am being too demanding, I dunno. Last time, before the exam, he used to call me all the time to ask me out for meals but now he didn't call anymore, and I am the one who is calling him now and he won't be in his room. I think I should just continue to play hard to get like last time...and then he will pay more attention to me again hehehehe Mr. Green But anyway just need opinions here...feel free to comment...

i.c.y

M©+square SG

Don't try to play that game.
Try getting hold of your own life and stay independent.
You're being needy now. And that's not a good sign as you'll in the losing end.

Trust me. Don't play hard to get. Just be yourself and have control over it.

ditzy SG

You are so forgiving. I wouldn’t do it if I were you. As for the playing hard to get, can’t comment, guys can’t take subtle hints need to be drilled thru their damn thick skulls. So it might all seem a waste. Just my views. Short and sharp.

icyprincess SG

What do you mean when you said I am so forgiving? And you wouldn't do what? Pls explain further Laughing

tiggersgd SG

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exam stress.... Laughing

ditzy SG

Well, you said ur giving B another chance and dunno why. Just personal opinion, somethings need not be justified with a valid answer.

M©+square SG

Cool

icyprincess SG

Anyway, you do know that B is the one who treats me nicer one right? Not the one who broke my heart, that one is unforgiveable oledi hahaha Mr. Green

kaobeikaobu SG

Are both you couples? Rolling Eyes
if not, then you have to take a step backward....try to relax and take this matter easy by going in as a friend. Then you will not expect too much or think too much. If you want his attention, just be yourself(best!!) and approach him sincerely as a friend at this moment. Dun play games..especially hide-and-seek; even kids at void deck nowadays dun play tat anymore.
Have fun and stay cool..icyprincess.

M©+square SG

HAAAA Mr. Green

ditzy SG

The starting is always nice one lah.

Ogbunwezeh SG

If i'm the guy, i'll juz give up after a few tries if the gal keep on play hard to get bcoz i dunno is it u interested or not, so i'll not waste times for all this games n go on... For ur case, is the guy also trying to be a challenge n play hard to get??

icyprincess SG

See, that's why I want to play hard to get. It seems like once the guy knows I like him, he will start distancing himself from me. Now you know why I am sick of guys. I feel like I can't trust them. I feel like the moment I am ready to entrust them with my heart, they will just walk away. I just dun understand guys anymore. I should just stay single my whole life and then I wouldn't have such headache.

Ogbunwezeh SG

If the guy really love u a lot n he know tat he stand a chance to be with u den why did he wanna distance himself?? If i'm the guy, tat will be the happiest moment in my life...

ditzy SG

Some guys are the sweetest things, others can be real jerks. Haiz, this world ain't good enough for all of us. Sad

foga SG

i agree. i'm also sick of guys.
haiz.... why?!?!?!
but hor boss, u still young leh.
give urself more time to explore.

beagle SG

lemme tell u why he start to distance himself from you .. not ebcause u showed him tt u like him liao , is because u played tt game (which i hate so much) and he probably feels tt u r not interested in the first place and now perhaps u brok wif A and just seeking refuge or smthing, and he's just a sub or smthin'

There's my answer Mr. Green

kaobeikaobu SG

could be...in short, dun play games...things are simpler than what you see...moreover, its just wasting your time, also mental draining.
just be friends first...develop from there...it's just harder to revert back to friendship status after confessing than first knowing what he feels towards you. I guess you are quite young so don't have to jump on any wagon too quickly, but cautiously...

As for your insecurity.You have two choice - either choose to believe that there's someone special out there who will give you security and devoted love. or you can just stick to your original nun plan - then you have to source for a temple that serves tasty veg meals...

M©+square SG

Hmm....good good.
Trying to post constructive comments. Smile

choco B SG

It's not about playing hard to get... it's about being smart. Sometimes you bait, other times you hunt.