Hitakogi SG hiaz .. Many decision made by u, do u have any regrets? or even if u have regrets, u follow ur fate and say u accpt it? in this world, we know wat is rite and wat is wronge, but till the end, its not our brains that made the decision, usually is the heart! when was the last time u use ur brains to made a decision rather then ur heart? wat was the outcome? when was the last time u use ur heart to made a decision rather then ur brains? wats was the outcome?
edwinSSM SG The last time i used my brains to think, i messed up everything... my brain was messing with me: " Should i ask the girl out? or shouldn't I? Then all the negative things came into my brain and i decided not to... even though my heart wants to." I've regretted that ever since... that was 5 years ago...
edwinSSM SG She always said this to me: ”... just follow your heart… ” and i’ve done that ever since. And i feel so much better following my heart, cause my heart doesn’t gives me the negative thoughts.
M©+square SG Hey bro, Have been observing your post. Have gone thru some rough patch eh? Take heart my friend. ________________________________________ I do follow my heart. At most times....still yes. But thru certain experience worth mentioning in my life. I've learnt to use my heart to make decisions....wisely. We all got to learn and gain wisdom from lessons...hurtful experiences or wonderful encounters. Otherwise those milestones will be in vain, just like wind passing over. There's nothing tangible to take note of. Then what's the point of going thru it in the first place? Without realising, we might just live our life in circles! Sin, it is! 1 When we make decisions with our hearts without mind's consent...is suicide. 2 We make our decisions with our mind without heart's consent...is Numbness. 1 It becomes suicide you there is internal conflict between emotions and logic. When logic doesn't approve....confusion creeps in. And what happens? Wrong decisions as resulted. 2 How can anyone think without engaging emotions? That's only when we chose to numb ourselves. Bro, you are very emotional. And cannot handle well. Try giving yourself some space and do some self reflection. Learn more about yourself - strong attributes and weak points. Train your spiritual being to be wise and emotionally strong. Again. Think not of those problems. Those are not your real enemy. You are your enemy. Solve it from within yourself. You have many knots to untie. Get Right with your life. And CHOOSE to make the right decisions. Cheers
FireIce SG some things mus use heart some things mus use mind rber hor....neber yi qi yong shi or be swayed by others...... and be prepared to be responsible for wateber consequences that might happen.....
Hitakogi SG wat things use heart? wat things use mind? matter of hearts? use wat? afraid of making the wronge decision that would coz more decision making in future .. hiaz ...
wuming78 SG i have told myself not to regret.. to consider carefully and den go ahead. regret wont be of much help. if things dont go the way it should jus take it as a lesson learnt... and yes i follow my heart, sometimes more than my head.
Yunhaier SG I used my mind to act - I was mentally stress. I employed my heart to feel - I was overwhelmed emotionally. Now I use my soul to search - both my heart and mind succumb. I see two images. Cheers
Phoebeng SG Sometimes have to use intuition. Follow your gut feeling at times. No risk taken, no potential gain
Hitakogi SG arrhh life is short, how many 10 years do u have? hiaz wat im really sad abt is, sometime even if u realise the mistake, somehow u will make the same old mistake, or sim mistake, after many many mistake, i tend to use my brains, but hor ... it was another mistake .... hiaz ... jus couldn't get it ...
Hitakogi SG yes i do agreed that regret cant do anything to help but.. somehow, even for jus one second.. im sure u will have that feeling... hehe .. rite?
Hitakogi SG i agreed but ... Certain rish can't afford to lose, its like certain things u can't lose .. once u lose, u lose it all .. example, ur pride, ur stands etc ... no man can afford to lose that ..
M©+square SG Some things i've shared.....hope it'll help.There are many regrets in our lifes. Hopefully had made us grow and realise importance of living life. It's always not too late...and there's always something to lose when you start counting the cost, holding back advances or giving chances and hesitation. Till when we have realised that in everything, there's risk. Till we learn to lose, we realise actually nothing have ever belonged to us. And that there's nothing to lose!
Phoebeng SG Until you try, you wouldnt know what you would lose. And life doesnt entitle us to win all the time. Being conservative doesnt mean that one will always not regret the actions. Before you confirm that particular regret you have in mind, think 10 yrs down the road. Would you think back, “If only I had tried harder…”? THAT would be a regret of which money cannot buy back – Time.
