You seem sad. For married couples, it is a must to talk to out
on any problems and not hide away. I totally agree with your
actions and argument but sometimes, it takes a while to let the
anger settle and cool down. Seeing the partner or the one who makes
u angry everyday does not help. It would only result in more
picking of faults in each other and quarrels. But by stepping on
the alter and saying the marriage vows to each other, the
relationship must mean something. Unless effort is put in, one
should not give up even though the perception of the result is
negative. You would never know how it might turn out. In other
words, there will always be conflicts between 2 people (maybe more
if + the in-laws) living under 1 roof. It just depends on how the
issues are being faced. Stay positive 