choosin dream or bf??

last SG · 2004-04-20T16:55:02+00:00

how come i've got a feelin macam i the BF like tat? cool down, i'm jus saying wat i think could be the BF's stand and i'm not anti-air stewardress ok.... o...

Lovespirit SG

always my dream to be a air stewardess.. but somehw my bf hate this occupation a lot n he told me tt if i choose to be one, our relationship sure be affected...
well.. i won't give up my dream cos i grow up dreaming to be one...
but what he says hurts me...
i mean how can a guy can be so selfish.. i'm just following my heart to pursue this career...
n yet he is threatening me with our relationship... or is it that our love have no strong foundation, and tt he has no faith in me.. (he perceived air stewardess to be very busy, bitchy n materialistic) oh my god... what u pple think? Confused

sgboy2004 SG

well, follows your heart...

job , esp air stewardess is not a job u can do when u get older...now u hav the opportunity, go for it...one day, your bf will understand

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RaTtY81 SG

imo i think hes not worthy enuff to b ur bf.

Dj_Shadow SG

Yeah... Go and be an air-stewardess...

Lovespirit SG

actually he is one of the best guy i have met, but when come to this matter he is so persistent... very stubborn.... so unlike his normal self.. usually he is very sensitive to me, and a very good listener.. but haiz.... Sad

StayFocus SG

Follow your dreams. talk to him and find out why he objected...maybe he has got a point.

got a friend in the line. she says its quite hei1 an4 (dark). need to play politics to get good flights (eg Spore to UK etc). you'll end up flying to KL or jakata everyday if you don't "socialise" with the top ppl.

iluvsingapore SG

follow your heart…

RaTtY81 SG

haha mayb u havent met a better guy?

UandMe SG

maybe he's worried for her safety?

jOhO SG

let us know wat u decide. it’s ur decision to make.

harryryan SG

i know y he thinks that way...
he knows that being an air stewardess means u will be flying all over e place all e time...so ur relationship sure get affected one....

number 2....u will know alot of pple when u strat working n will know some guys who r better than him n he doesn't wanna lose u.....

Devil1976 SG

Yup... It's your career... He can advise you but ultimately, he'll still have to respect your decision...?

FireIce SG

i support u to choose ur dream

but i like the way ur bf is protecting u....

^sylvia^ SG

if he really love you, he will encourage you in everything you do instead of threatening non stop..
guess you have to reconsider about your relationship.
if he perceived so, which means you too are some sort of the air stewardess in his heart?
you can try to sort things out with him again and see whether he will change his views towards this.. if not really should consider about this yourself.

just my views, don't flame me thanks Embarassed Sad

and also take care k? don't worry too much Very Happy

M©+square SG

There's always two side to da coin. What you percieve is passiveness from her BF.
Her boyfriend must have know something negetive about being as 'Airline industry' from someone. Hence views are not likely to change. The only thing would change would be the relationship.
Somethings Gotta Give.

Just like FireIce said, he's trying to protect her.

The couple have to put the relationship into test this time.

True Love >>> Let Go
True Love also protects!!!

There are two sides....2 sides.

Neutral

Lovespirit SG

thanks, thanks for all the advices.. seem like majority feel tt i should pursue my dream... well tt what my heart is telling me also..
gonna try again n again to be a air stewardess til the day SIA close down.... Embarassed
meanwhile will try to "negotiate" with my bf... if he love me, he should trust me... i really dun wish to lose him....he's a great guy..
hopefully i would have both.. my dream job n my bf... if not... haiz....

Devil1976 SG

Cool

^sylvia^ SG

jia you bah.. i will give you my moral support~!

FreeToFly SG

I believe going for your dreams is more important. He has to love you and support you including your goal.

alfino SG

Heck care him, and go do watever you want! Twisted Evil

Honestly, you should talk to him about this issue. Understand his stand in this matter, and decide. It's always hard to balance dream and love sometimes. You shld just talk, understand, think, decide.

*just my 2 cents worth*